HI everyone and here is the weekly ask Mistress post which also happens to be the day before my birthday as well….be sure to tune into tonight birthday bash with Ms Hunter and I at 8 pm eastern on cock radio. Enjoy this post and as always if you would like to submit your own question please feel free to use my ask Mistress tab at the top of my blog page.
Dear Mistress:
When can I stare at your gorgeous ass again?
Well Now hehehehehe and of course the next time you are on your knees behind me…enjoy the view hehehehe
Dear Mistress:
What do you think about coerced bi?
I love it I think it is a great way for those of you who are curious or even full on bi but afraid to admit it to explore and enjoy it while also making peace with it because it was against your will kinda sorta.
Dear Mistress:
What would your heaven look like?
Well it would be peaceful happy and full of love and laughter those who I have lost would be there and we would just have an awesome time once again. Probably not the answer you were looking for but it is my real and first reaction to the question.
Dear Mistress:
How do you help a client overcome the idea that their fetish means that there is something wrong with them or makes them a bad person?
I think first of all acceptance of it from me helps second of all I think the fact I don’t judge helps. I would also let them know they are not alone because chances are many if not tons of peeps have the same fetish as they do. I will also say if you’re not doing anything illegal and everyone is a willing participant in the fun than what’s the harm? Listen life is too short for hang ups do your thing live your life enjoy it and know there are people like me in the world who won’t judge and who don’t think something is wrong with you.
Dear Mistress:
What would you rather have? An alpha male in public and at home or an alpha male in public but totally submissive to you at home.
I enjoy an alpha male in public submissive male at home……but not always submissive nor always alpha if that makes any sense…….so in a nut shell I date and sleep with alpha males not submissive males unless I am using them for my pleasure….but on the flip side I don’t want my submissive to be super submissive in public. I know confusing but I am a complicated woman LOL
Dear Mistress:
Would You have any advice on how to tell a girl you start dating that you wear panties. Like how soon after i meet her without that blowing up in my face either by her running for the hills or staying with me and telling the whole world. In the worst case scenario her telling the world and running for the hills.
It depends on how fast the relationship is moving or if it is going anywhere. Never tell a new person you are dating all your naughty secrets no matter what they are because honestly it is too much too soon. Lets say you are dating for a few weeks and about to take things to a sexual level by this time you should know more of how she is and what her reaction might be…then you can tell her about it BUT be sure to explain it is not that you want to be a woman or anything like that but that you enjoy the feel or whatever the reason is for you wearing them. Women or the average woman will think panties = gay or that your trans it is a natural reaction so be sure to explain your reasons.
It’s becoming a tradition for Me to pick My favorite question during Your question-of-the-week posts, Miss Constance. This week it’s the one about shame in kink. It’s My favorite this week perhaps out of coincidence. I had a session tonight that seemed as if it was going well, but then cut off abruptly. I wasn’t sure if it was a technical difficulty, or if My playmate was simply done unexpectedly, so I checked in with him (it was a Skype session).
He wrote back saying “Who needs this garbage? I don’t! And you don’t either. You should look deep inside and think about who you are. You’re better than this.”
At first, I was angry. I dislike kink shaming intensely, and I dislike cowardice even more. I thought it was cowardly of him to project his feelings of guilt over his kinky tastes on to Me, and said as much. But as time has passed, I feel less angry and more pity. His shame over his tastes must be so great that displacing its weight by trying to spread it to someone else is the only way he could cope.
thank you for sharing this and for being such a great fan of this weekly blog
Thanks for the Great answers…. And my heaven would have to have you in it :! ( well not for a LOT of years from now lol )……Happy Birthday !
thanks for always reading and being so awesome