The title to this weeks Ask Mistress post should explain it all…there is a question in here for me that I answered how I WANTED with my honesty and not how the asker wanted me to, so like it or not, for better or worse, you got what you got LOL. Listen, I don’t want anyone to think I am a jerk off here, but when it comes to commenting on other ladies that I work with you’re best not to tell me how to answer the question…or I will, as you can see, and already read, be defensive. Now, if you would like to send me in a question, please do so by using my Ask Mistress tab right here on my blog

Dear Mistress:
Why is it that a person’s actions and feelings while they’re in a heightened sexual moment are at times different when they are not aroused. This is why I think phone sex is so great. You can choose when to have a safe mind blowing sexual fantasy but you do not necessarily have to carry it on 24-7.

I don’t know really…here is my thinking: I don’t question the hows or the whys. I just enjoy having naughty kinky fun and ride that horny wave…I do for sure agree that phone sex is perfect for safe, mind blowing sexual fantasies!

Dear Mistress:
Often when a person of experience gives out job advice they say do something you love and it will never be a job. Mistress Constance do you belong to that category. Also how do you feel about other mistresses? Mark Twain said work is when you would rather be doing something else. There are bills to be paid etc. are the mistresses really into it or merely doing a job so they too can live the American dream. Are they like a lot of the workforce looking at the clock and waiting for their shift to end. And please mistress Constance do not give the answer every mistress is different. From your perspective how you perceive it.

Okay, regardless of how you try to instruct me to answer this question I will answer it how I feel is appropriate….First of all, I love what I do, and I think it comes through in all I do, and the fact of the matter is with all the free things I do and offer there is NO WAY I am in it just for the money….but let’s call it what it is…this is my job and this is how I earn my living….but I do truly love it. As far as other ladies, ask them what they think about it. You “telling” me not to answer a certain way or how you want me to answer will never change my thinking….it is inappropriate for me to comment on how other Mistresses THINK OR FEEL about what they do here………..so if you want to know about them, ask them. Asking one Mistress to publicly or otherwise comment on others is just wrong in my opinion.

Update from this question this was sent in yesterday

Oh mistress Constance. I was not referring to any mistress in particular just in general.I would never want you to speak for a particular mistress.it was a general question. Anyway since I worded it poorly I apologize. Thank-you mistress Constance for answering my questions. You are beautiful thoughtful sincere.

Thank you for sending this to me sweetie, but even discussing in general about the ladies is not something I will do. I appreciate you following up with me…let this go down as one of those misunderstandings that happens in text communications. We are all good. 

Dear Mistress:
When you are having sex with one of your partner’s do you ever think or fantasize about any of your pets?

I often think of my pets while having sex with men, or engaging in kink play with others because so many things make me say, oh this pet would LOVE this, or that pet would give his right arm to be on his knees right now, hehehehe, and of course, whenever I have an orgasm with or without a partner, I think of my denied pets, hehehehehe.

Dear Mistress:
Have you ever owned or driven a motorcycle? Have you ever ridden one regularly, such as being the passenger on the motorcycle of a boyfriend? Have you ever attended any motorcycle events, such as “Bike Week” in Daytona or the big rally in Sturgis, SD? How about any memorable motorcycle “road trips” or other experiences involving motorcycles you’d like to share with us?

I have never owned one and in fact I am a tad afraid of them…..due to one incident when I was much younger. A guy friend of mine took me out on his bike (like a rice burner type) and popped a wheelie on the interstate and it scared me to de@th……….I have since been on the back of a Harley and loved it, but that one incident is enough to make me very afraid of them. I have gone to bike week in Daytona and let me tell you, it is amazing…..just walking down the streets you can feel the rumble of them I swear it vibrated me to the core and I enjoyed the buzz that seemed to be in the air.