When it comes to chastity I am a huge fan and have over the years grown to truly love and embrace it. Some clients of mine who never thought they would enjoy it have found that chastity mindfuck starts to happen when you are locked up long term.
Chastity the beginning
It does not matter if you have done it before or for how long, but in the beginning of your cock locked chastity journey when you first get locked up you experience the high of chastity. This high makes you horny, makes you ache and makes you want to touch. You will never feel the same type of horniness as you do when you first get locked into chastity.
You get used to chastity
After a period of time your body adjusts and you no longer get morning wood or feel the constant desire to touch. With the right chastity device it is almost as if you cant feel that you are locked up. You will have days of extreme frustration as well as days of I got this no big deal. As hard as it might seem for those of you who have not been in chastity to believe, it does get easier and you get used to being cock locked.
The Chastity mindfuck
Now after a long period in chastity something amazing happens. You start to feel the chastity mindfuck come into play. Not only do you want to cum, but at the same time you want more denial. You begin to crave the control of chastity and want more. You find yourself more submissive and craving even more chastity control and thus the chastity mindfuck is in full play. Now to be honest I am amazed at what happens to long term chastity slaves and how the mindfuck of chastity grabs hold of them and it thrills me to no end!
Well said Mistress! It has to be experienced to be understood. But, nothing provides a more powerful way of inducing pure submission in the wearer, coupled with constant horniness and an overwhelming need and desire to do anything and everything to please his Mistress! Those of us in chastity all come to worship our Keyholder as the Goddesses they are !
yes cuckie it must be experienced to be understood that’s for sure and your key holder adores you as well
I haven’t experienced long-term chastity, but I have experienced denial, or mental chastity, and I’m not surprised at any reactions. The mental and emotional parts of denial or chastity are as big a part of the process as the physical, and just as difficult or rewarding in my opinion.
yes you have enjoyed denial and as frustrating as it is you also found it to be fun and exciting mmmmmmmm
Wonderful picture of chastity with you. Unfortunately, I’ve only been able to explore denial without the actually device. So, I’m not fully able to understand what that arousal must feel like with such a skilled Mistress like yourself. I guess I’ll continue to live in envy of those who have experienced such a sensation with you.
w your penis is too big for chastity I don’t think we could find a device even a custom one to fit your big cock hehehe but I do love keeping you denied
I’ve never been locked up but with you and the other hot mistressss it would be difficult to say no to. If you would keep me dressed as girl as well as tease me by giving me lipstick kisses on my cheeks and grant me release once in a while I guess I would be interested. Ms Cindy already has broke me down in making me a cream puff sissy by having me in bra/panty/slip as well as having me wear women’s clothes/dresses all the time as well as wearing boots/heels. This is punishment for wearing her bra/panty set with lipstick & heels getting off as she walked in on me doing this.
you should try it petey
Life long dream and desire. Not a day goes by without me dreaming about being in chastity for You. Begging to for You to take it out and tease and deny me and then locking me back up blue balled and loving it! Mmmmm. Oh and could you email that pic? Would love to edge to that pic!
another too big penis for chastity but I do love leaving your blue balled and denied and honey you have the pic now hehehehe
Very well put, Ms. Constance! I find the chastity mindfuck to be very fascinating! It happens at different periods for different men, but when it does…boy, does it fuck with their minds! It’s like a mental tug-of-war, with one side screaming, “Let me cum,” and the other side desperately begging for more denial.
In a related story, I had a chastity slut who must have been so deeply affected by this chastity mindfuck that when it was time for release, he ASKED for a week-long extension to his already 6-month chastity program. His cock and brain must have been having some real disagreements there, lol, but that’s the interesting psychology of chastity.
Constance, Marlena,
Interesting read. I can’t say I’ve experienced the long term effects you describe. Specifically, a man’s desire to continue to not be allowed to cum after having already been in long term chastity. Are men in this situation really torn between wanting to cum and asking for more denial? I wonder what their motives are for requesting extended abstinence from a Mistress. I can only guess that it causes a man to have a growing bond with the woman in control of his abstinence which is possibly at the root of what the submissive’s desires. I wonder if being locked in a cage has something to do with this mindset.
The longest I abstained was 21 days. I was constantly horny. My situation was possibly different though. I didn’t use a chastity device, it was strictly willpower. I never used a cage and probably never will. The reason is that I view cock cages as having a similar effect on the muscles in a penis as a medical cast would have on the muscles it covers for an extended period of time. Muscle atrophy. The thought of my cock diminishing in size and strength because of a cock cage is worrisome to say the least.
On the other hand, I see the appeal of a woman controlling a man’s orgasm. I suppose a cock cage makes it easier for a submissive to keep his hands off and assures a Mistress that there’s no cheating. If you think about it a little differently though, is any of this supposed to be easy on the submissive? Not really. Imagine a D/s dynamic where the Mistress and sub have such an honest relationship that she trusts him to tell the truth. Now imagine that the Mistress imposes abstinence, but with no cock cage. Her expectation is that if for some unacceptable reason, the submissive looses self control and jacks off like some unruly ape, he’ll be honest and forthcoming about the transgression, and be dealt with accordingly. Imagine the mind fuck of not knowing the ramifications. Possibly a 1,000 word essay explaining why a submissive shouldn’t cum without permission? Forced cum eating the next time he is allowed to cum? Being ignored by the Mistress for a period of time that makes him regret he ever came in the first place? Maybe something else? The possibilities are endless.
Imagine how this can really play out. Hypothetically a Mistress and sub agree that his abstinence will last anywhere between 2 days to 4 weeks. A pre-determined date will not be set. Instead, the Mistresses has full discretion of when it will happen and will invariably notify the sub on short notice. The sub also agrees to check his email every day at 12PM (another time if she prefers) to read and comply with an eventual message that will direct him to call in and be on cam for the purpose of relieving his denied cock. He would be expected to be available for such a call within 18 hours of the email being sent… a shorter time if she really want to fuck with his mind. Additionally, no cock cage would be used for this period of denial. Self control is her expectation. How can abstinence be verified in this situation; you might ask? Well, prior to the period of denial beginning, the Mistress might kindly ask the submissive to jack off for her one time only during a predetermined time of day and then look for an email from her the next day at a specific time. That email might indicate that if he’s serious about abstaining for 2 days to 4 weeks, he will call her and be on cam within 1 hour. During that cam session she would have him jack off and cum once again for the purpose of seeing the size of his load after 24 hours have passed since his last orgasm. This does two things; 1. sets a baseline for when his denial period will begin; and 2, show her exactly how much cum he produces after just 24 hours. Naturally, she would expect a much larger load after a period of 2 days to 4 weeks. So, if she emails him… say on day 4 and has him get on cam to jack off and cum, well, he had better have a huge load already built up. The problem for him is that he won’t know if he’ll get the email on day 2, day 7, day 16, day 17… you get the idea. He’ll only know that when he does get the email, he had better be on cam within 18 hours and be ready to produce a hefty load or pay consequences. Consequences could be a whole different topic of discussion.
wow mike thankyou for the very well thought out comment 🙂 love your ideas too