This is another chastity interview that Ryan was so kind to do for me. I am finding it more and more interesting the takes on chastity and what it means for all types of orgasm denial lovers…either long term or short term there is something interesting in them all.

 Are you locked in a chastity device right now?

No, I am not currently locked in chastity. I did a 3 week run with Ms Violet recently but we’ve decided to explore something different right now.

 Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?

Real

When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?

It excites me very much to turn control of my orgasms over to someone else.

Do you currently have a keyholder?

I guess Ms Violet would still be considered my keyholder. Although we currently aren’t using chastity we are still including orgasm denial/control so I guess you could still call her a keyholder.

 How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?

I’ve never been good at describing my ideal anything. I guess for starters my ideal keyholder would be local to me. As much fun as I enjoy my time with Ms Violet on the phone, I would love to find the right person locally. I think ideally I would want my keyholder to be more than just my keyholder. I would want her to be the most important thing in my life and hope that I would be that in hers as well.

 How many chastity devices have you purchased?

1 – A cb3000

Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?

Yes, but I don’t think this is something I could see myself doing presently. There are too many other things that I enjoy or think I may enjoy that chastity prevents or severely limits what can be done. Maybe after I’ve had some time to explore all of those then I may be ready to move on to permanent chastity.

 Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?

Not really. I had found a website ran by a domme who offered “trainings” periodically. Generally chastity was included as a part of those so while I had a few fantasies involving chastity prior to that it was those that got me to buy my first, and so far only, chastity device. It was then a blog post by Ms. Violet that got me really excited to try chastity again, this time with a little more personal attention.

 What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?

A little over 3 weeks

 When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?

Until recently I hadn’t. But since deciding to try something else other then chastity with Ms Violet I’ve been doing stroking and edging sessions daily but no orgams. Unfortunately, I’m still not too adept at feeling the point where I should stop and have resulted in a handful of ruined orgams over the last couple of weeks.

When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?

It’s not something that is usually high on my list for masturbating, not sure why. It’s probably less than 10% probably because I just don’t think about it enough. When I do think about

What did it feel like the first time be be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?

I love giving up control so while there was a little bit of fear it was very exciting. Was also a little painful as my cock instantly tried to get hard inside of its cage.

How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?

This is by far my favorite part of chastity play. As I said, I enjoy giving up control and what more control can I give up but when I’ll be able to have an orgasm.

If your interested in doing a chastity interview with me please feel free to contact me at constance@enchantrixempire.com