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		<title>I will be on cock radio tonight LIVE at 9 pm</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 14:09:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Empress Constance</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ms Hunter and I always have a blast when we do anything together and this will be no exception!!! For those of you who have missed me on the radio this is a GREAT chance to hear me once again live and unfiltered!!  <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/2012/05/i-will-be-on-cock-radio-tonight-live-at-9-pm/">I will be on cock radio tonight LIVE at 9 pm</a></span>]]></description>
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<p>Yes you read that right I will be returning to cock radio for one night only on Ms Hunters show at 9pm est. We will be dedicating the show to Cannibals Birthday and well when it comes to a topic cannibal likes you never know what might happen!!!!</p>
<p>To join the chatters go to <a href="http://www.communitykink.com">www.communitykink.com</a> and to tune in go to <a href="http://www.cockradio.com">www.cockradio.com</a></p>
<p>Ms Hunter and I always have a blast when we do anything together and this will be no exception!!! For those of you who have missed me on the radio this is a GREAT chance to hear me once again live and unfiltered!!</p>
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		<title>The Right Phone Sex Mistress</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 13:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Empress Constance</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[She can make your cock hard in a million different ways. Ways that maybe you've read blogs about, but never experienced for yourself. You begin to realize, it's so much more exciting to please her and let her take you on these different sexual trips. It allows your mind to wonder to where she may take you next and when she'll allow you to go. The anticipation and wonder is something that is exciting in itself. <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/2012/05/the-right-phone-sex-mistress/">The Right Phone Sex Mistress</a></span>]]></description>
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<p><strong><a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/constance9.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3141" title="Phone Sex Mistress Constance" src="http://intelligentfemdom.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/constance9-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a></strong></p>
<p><strong>The following blog post was written by one of my long time callers&#8230;..he wanted to share what finding the right <a href="http://cockcontrol.co.uk/which_mistress.php">Phone Sex Mistress </a>means for him and how he feels about me being his Mistress. </strong></p>
<p><strong>I want everyone to know that I am indeed capable of feeling very special towards many of you and that when it comes to my connections they are real and true&#8230;.Yes you may be one of many but you are never left feeling like you are just  caller with me and instead are left feeling as special as you are to me and on top of the world&#8230;..the very same way I feel after having gotten to know all of you. </strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve found the most wonderful <a href="http://pleaseyourmistress.co.uk/why_you_need_a_mistress.php">Mistress.</a>  Not that I&#8217;ve just discovered her, we&#8217;ve developed our relationship since she started with LDW a few years ago.  Each year, month, day has become more special to me.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been &#8220;around&#8221; or calling LDW for several years and my experiences have always been great.  But once you find that special <a href="http://voxerotic.com/scarlett_phone_sex_artist.html">Phone Sex </a>Mistress who you connect with, it&#8217;s just a perfect fit.  The connection of course is about arousal, sharing, and respect. You never ask for anything, she knows what and when you need direction.</p>
<p>She can make your cock hard in a million different ways.  Ways that maybe you&#8217;ve read blogs about, but never experienced for yourself.  You begin to realize, it&#8217;s so much more exciting to<a href="http://pleaseyourmistress.co.uk/how_do_i_please_my_mistress.php"> please her and let her take you on these different sexual trips.</a> It allows your mind to wonder to where she may take you next and when she&#8217;ll allow you to go.  The anticipation and wonder is something that is exciting in itself.</p>
<p>The longer you know her, the more you find yourself thinking of her on a different level. You hope for her happiness not only here, but her entire life.  You care about her as a person and want all aspects of life to be well.</p>
<p>You never know where the future may lead, but you know that she will always be a part of your life, and you&#8217;ll never<br />
forget her.</p>
<p>This is what this Mistress means to me.  This is only a part of what Constance means to me.</p>
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<p><strong>So I want to know even if I am not your Mistress&#8230;what does your Mistress mean to you? Share in comments just what the lady you have surrendered to means to you and how you feel having her in your life.</strong></p>
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		<title>A Chastity Interview with Jolene from Alaska</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 14:08:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release? That has been a long time fantasy of mine, under different circumstances i would indeed consider this. i find that being in chastity gives me more focus in my everyday life to accomplish the goals i set for myself.  <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/2012/05/a-chastity-interview-with-jolene-from-alaska/">A Chastity Interview with Jolene from Alaska</a></span>]]></description>
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<p><strong>I have had the pleasure of seeing Jolene <a href="http://www.enchantrix.com/chastity-poll">locked in chastity </a>and even got to share a very special ceremony on the phone with Ms Claire and a few other ladies&#8230;.Jolene thank you Ms Claire is very lucky to have you as you are very lucky to have her&#8230;..enjoy everyone</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Are you locked in a <a href="http://www.malechastityphonesex.com/main.php">chastity </a>device right now?</strong></p>
<p><em>Yes i am, although i cannot be locked up 24/7, i generally put my device on in the morning and wear it all day.</em></p>
<p><strong>Is most of your <a href="http://www.malechastityphonesex.com/chastity_makes_the_heart_grow_fonder.php">chastity play </a>real, or fantasy?</strong></p>
<p><em>It is real for me, ever since i gave control over to my Mistress approximately 7 months ago, i have only had orgasms at Her direction with the exception of one &#8220;accident&#8221;. We have frequent sessions during which She takes me to the edge but usually i go back into chastity without release.</em></p>
<p><strong>When you considered giving <a href="http://www.extremecockcontrol.com/masturbation_management_orgasm_denial.php">orgasm control</a> over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?</strong></p>
<p><em>Both. It excited me in that this was something i had fantasized about for a long time and was finally bringing to reality and it frightened me a bit in that i was a chronic masturbator (2-3 times per day) and wasn&#8217;t sure if i could handle it and end up failing.</em></p>
<p><strong>Do you currently have a keyholder?</strong></p>
<p><em>Unfortunately no, Mistress Claire holds a symbolic key, it is an actual copy of the key that goes to my device.</em></p>
<p><strong>How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?</strong></p>
<p><em>Someone that understands my need to be controlled and explore my submissiveness and would use that need to see how far down the bdsm path i can go. Someone that would also use that need for Her own pleasure and amusement.</em></p>
<p><em>Someone like my current Mistress (Claire).</em></p>
<p><strong>How many <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/chastity_devices.html">chastity devices</a> have you purchased?</strong></p>
<p><em>Just the one i am currently wearing, a CB 6000.</em></p>
<p><strong>Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?</strong></p>
<p><em>That has been a long time fantasy of mine, under different circumstances i would indeed consider this. i find that being in chastity gives me more focus in my everyday life to accomplish the goals i set for myself.</em></p>
<p><em>Most importantly, i find that chastity puts me in a much more &#8220;pliable&#8221; state of mind allowing me, under the guidance of my Mistress, to explore and experience my submissive, feminine side in ways i never thought would be possible for me.</em></p>
<p><strong>Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?</strong></p>
<p><em>It was more of a gradual realization, after many conversations with my current Mistress, i felt a real connection to Her, and i decided i wanted to do everything i could to give Her more control over me.</em></p>
<p><strong>What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?</strong></p>
<p><em>89 days is my current record. As of this writing it has been 78 days and it will be 120 days before my Mistress even considers my next orgasm.</em></p>
<p><strong>When you aren’t locked up, do you practice <span class='bm_keywordlink'><a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com" target="_blank">orgasm denial</a></span>?</strong></p>
<p><em>Yes i do. Altough i do have the opportunity to &#8220;cheat&#8221; and give myself orgasms, i do not. One time, when i had my device off i was fondling myself and before i knew it i was past the point of no return. Even though it was a ruined orgasm in that i stopped touching myself as soon as i started cumming i felt terrible because i had let both myself and my Mistress down. i decided to confess to my Mistress and take the punishment i knew would surely come, which ended up being another 6 weeks in chastity.</em></p>
<p>i take it as a personal challenge, just like any challenge i may face in my everyday life to please my Mistress and follow Her directions and i get extreme satisfaction out of it.</p>
<p><strong>When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?</strong></p>
<p><em>Not applicable</em></p>
<p><strong>What did it feel like the first time be be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?</strong></p>
<p><em>The first time i put my device on i was on cam with my Mistress, when i snapped the padlock shut it felt incredible- i was holding my cock and balls but not feeling them- it felt confining- like someone was holding my cock and balls in their hand, a feeling i have come to enjoy.</em></p>
<p><strong>How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?</strong></p>
<p><em>It feels frustrating at times, especially in the mornings when i wake up hard which used to be a prime time for masturbating for me. i try not to think about it too much but that doesn&#8217;t always work, then i remember that my chastity brings pleasure to my Mistress and it becomes easier to endure.</em></p>
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		<title>Second Part of a Chastity Interview with Smoothrage from California</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2012 13:24:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Empress Constance</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity? This question illustrates the inherent irony in chastity play. Masturbating about not being able to masturbate. Anyway, I would say probably about 75% of the time. If not chastity then almost always some form of femdom and/or bondage.  <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/2012/04/second-part-of-a-chastity-interview-with-smoothrage-from-california/">Second Part of a Chastity Interview with Smoothrage from California</a></span>]]></description>
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<p><strong>This is the second part of my chastity interview with Smoothrage from California </strong></p>
<p><strong>When you aren’t locked up, do you practice <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/male_orgasm_denial_benefits.html">orgasm denial</a>?</strong></p>
<p><em>No way! <img src='http://intelligentfemdom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Without a device I can only last about three or four days, and that&#8217;s if I&#8217;m really trying. I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m different than other guys but my hands start getting a mind of their own, everything gets very sensitive and my thoughts are uncontrollable. Without a device <span class='bm_keywordlink'><a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com" target="_blank">orgasm denial</a></span> is just a myth for me. If I&#8217;m not trying to hold back then the normal routine would be once or twice a day.</em></p>
<p><strong>When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?</strong></p>
<p><em>This question illustrates the inherent irony in chastity play. Masturbating about not being able to masturbate. Anyway, I would say probably about 75% of the time. If not chastity then almost always some form of femdom and/or bondage.</em></p>
<p><em>I think abandonment fantasies would probably fill that remaining 25% pretty well. That&#8217;s the idea of a girl tying me up (or locking me in a dog cage) and leaving to go about her business or go out with friends. I guess it&#8217;s sort of like full-body chastity. As with chastity, this fantasy probably stems from some real-world experiences I&#8217;ve had with an ex.</em></p>
<p><strong>What did it feel like the first time be be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?</strong></p>
<p><em>Amazing! (BTW, Just the fact that you asked this question indicates your understanding of the <a href="http://www.malechastityphonesex.com/i_like_being_a_chastity_mistress.php">chastity experience</a>.) A man goes through a wide range of feelings the first 20 minutes of being locked. I can still vividly recall standing there, holding my penis&#8230; and yet not holding it. The normal sensation was completely gone. It was a trip as my mind rapidly alternated between amazement at the physical sensation, and fear as the realization sunk in that I would no longer be able to masturbate at will and I had no idea for how long.</em></p>
<p><strong>How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?</strong></p>
<p><em>Not knowing really brings out the submissive feelings in me. As others have said it&#8217;s a two-edged sword. On the one hand the idea of being completely in the dark about when I would be granted an orgasm is a huge turn-on. In real-life situations, though, it is often good to have a goal to be working towards, if only to help keep my spirits up. My keyholders have often given vague hints as to when I might get out or a minimum sentence (that tends to get extended over and over). I suppose it&#8217;s a compromise to get the best of both approaches.</em></p>
<p><strong>What is at the heart of <a href="http://www.malechastityphonesex.com/chastity_from_the_male_perspective.php">chastity play </a>for you? What is the draw?</strong></p>
<p><em>Amour Courtois&#8230;Courtly love. The romantic notion of being fully devoted to woman, of being infatuated with her, of being consumed with desire for her to the point that I would sacrifice much to demonstrate my devotion. I don&#8217;t mean devotion in a groveling, humiliating way, but more of a heroic, stoic sort of way.</em></p>
<p><strong>Is there anything else you would like to add about <a href="http://www.malechastityphonesex.com">chastity</a>?</strong></p>
<p><em>When I first went from reading stories about chastity to actually trying it in real life, I was surprised to find that everyone sees it a little differently. Some think of it as BDSM, some think of it as a practical solution to over-masturbation. Some enjoy the feeling of the device while others like the emotional and relationship implications. In any case, we&#8217;re a community and we&#8217;re in the minority (at least at the moment). I think it&#8217;s important to stick together. As we seek out those who understand the chastity game in the same way we do, we need to remember to respect those who may see it a little differently.</em></p>
<p><em></em> <strong><em>This was a great interview I really enjoyed reading his feelings and seeing it through his eyes. If you would like to do an interview on chastity please mail me at <a href="mailto:Constance@enchantrixempire.com">Constance@enchantrixempire.com</a></em></strong></p>
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		<title>A Chastity Interview with SmoothRage from California</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 14:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is another fascinating chastity interview that was recently done for me. I bet all those chastity lovers will absolutely identify with this one....and for those curious I think it is a nice perspective of what chastity is about. I had to break this into two blog posts look for the rest tomorrow.  <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/2012/04/a-chastity-interview-with-smoothrage-from-california/">A Chastity Interview with SmoothRage from California</a></span>]]></description>
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<p><strong>Here is another fascinating <a href="http://www.chastityhell.com/">chastity</a> interview that was recently done for me. I bet all those chastity lovers will absolutely identify with this one&#8230;.and for those curious I think it is a nice perspective of what chastity is about. I had to break this into two blog posts, so look for the rest tomorrow.</strong><br />
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<strong>Are you locked in a chastity device right now?<br />
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<p><em>Yes, locked up tight in my Spiral. I&#8217;m going on just over four weeks.</em></p>
<p><strong>Is most of your <a href="http://www.malechastityphonesex.com/chastity_makes_the_heart_grow_fonder.php">chastity play</a> real, or fantasy?</strong></p>
<p><em>Real at the moment. It started out with a bang with my ex who kept me locked when we were in college. Over the last couple of years I&#8217;ve had periods of being locked and periods of wishing I were locked, depending on the girl I was dating at the time.</em></p>
<p><strong>When you considered giving <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/orgasmcontrol.html">orgasm control</a> over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?</strong></p>
<p><em>Both, for sure. In fact that fear or uncertainty is probably responsible for half of the pleasure in chastity play. I remember my very first time. My ex was getting ready to go on a trip and I had convinced her to lock me and take the key with her. (Looking back it wasn&#8217;t too smart to attempt a multi-week sentence on my very first try.)</em></p>
<p><em>The days and nights leading up to her departure were agonizing. I couldn&#8217;t eat or sleep for fear and excitement of what would come. The device didn&#8217;t arrive until the day before she was to leave. I waited outside for the mailman so my roommates wouldn&#8217;t see (I was still in college then). I remember my whole body shaking and shivering as I tried to figure out how to fit it properly. I wore it that night just to make sure it would work OK before handing over the keys.</em></p>
<p><em>The next day I helped my girl pack her car. Up until that point she had thought the whole thing was a bit silly. By the time we were done packing I had lost my nerve and decided not to hand them over. As we said our goodbyes she asked, &#8220;Do you have something for me?&#8221; She could tell I was a wreck as my hand holding the key shook violently, I mean it was really visibly shaking. She hugged me and rubbed my back and told me it would be fine. Then she slowly drew the keys from my fingers and pocketed them. Her last word was, &#8220;Enjoy!&#8221; Then she drove away.</em></p>
<p><strong>Do you currently have a keyholder?</strong></p>
<p><em>Yes, well sorta. A girl I dated previously has agreed to be my keyholder again, even though we aren&#8217;t dating. It&#8217;s not ideal and she wants me to eventually find a new keyholder. But there is something about an ex-girlfriend as a keyholder that adds a little extra bite.<br />
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<strong>How would you describe your ideal keyholder?</strong></p>
<p><em>I think this is the most important question on the survey. When I talk about chastity with vanilla folks, they almost always imagine an extreme BDSM situation. Women often say things like, &#8220;Oh, I could never do that. I&#8217;m not that mean.&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>For me, and I think for a lot of guys, the appeal of chastity is in simultaneously wanting release/sex and wanting to be denied. I think that&#8217;s why a good keyholder is a sexual, sensual caring person while somehow artfully balancing being a strict tease. When you think about it, women seem to straddle that line all the time. I mean, that&#8217;s the definition of flirting, right? Drawing a man in with some mild form of seduction, then denying him thereby causing his desire and frustration to build. (Repeat until the desired results are achieved.)</em></p>
<p><em>For those like me the screaming, whip-wielding, boot-licking form of femdom has some appeal but little compared to the sensual variety. </em><br />
<em>PS She has to be confident enough to inspire respect in me. A good sense of humor helps. An overall friendly and positive attitude is very attractive.<br />
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<strong>How many <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/chastity_devices.html">chastity devices</a> have you purchased?</strong></p>
<p><em>Let&#8217;s see. In the old days I started with a CB-2000 and CB-3000. The 3000 seemed to work better. Later I moved to the CB-6000 which was the best of the CB-X line. I tried a Bon4 and the BirdLocked but they didn&#8217;t seem quite secure enough. Last year I upgraded to metal with an older version of The Spiral that is different than the one now sold on UberKinky.</em></p>
<p><em>I&#8217;ve got a drawer full of parts and accessories like the points of intrigue or the ksd-g2.</em></p>
<p><strong>Ever consider complete and <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/long_term_orgasm_denial.html">permanent chastity </a>with no hope of release?</strong></p>
<p><em>I admit that this is a very hot fantasy. The main drawback here is that you can only live that moment once. You can only enjoy that that ultimate loss of freedom and accompanying sense of finality one time.</em></p>
<p><em>Some day I do hope to experience this. It would require the right girl and the right circumstances. Of course, one does not have to know they are in permanent chastity for it to be a reality. If a man knows there is no hope of being let out he may start immediately working to break free. However, if you always give him hope for a release yet continually postpone it, you may be able to keep him locked for much longer. Perhaps I am already on this path and have no idea. <img src='http://intelligentfemdom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </em></p>
<p><strong>Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?</strong></p>
<p><em>I&#8217;ve always been turned on by bondage. Even as a kid I remember playing tie-up games with friends and getting a funny feeling inside. I discovered chastity play in college and it was a conceptual turn-on. At the time I was competing for the affection of a girl that I had dated on and off and was madly in in love with. She kept breaking it off because she wanted to have a fun, wild college experience. At one point she decided to date another guy. The moment she told me I felt an overwhelming urge to submit to her, to lock myself up and hand over the keys. I&#8217;m not sure if it was some sort of deeply-rooted cuckold angst or if it was more of a chance to stay in her life any way possible. In any case she eventually agreed, leading up to the experience I shared above.</em></p>
<p><strong>What is the <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/orgasm_denial_phone_sex.html">longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms</a>?</strong></p>
<p><em>Between orgasms or in continuous chastity? Since I was a teen I think the longest time I&#8217;ve gone without orgasm was just over two months, which was due to chastity play. I have had periods of chastity with monthly release that have lasted almost a year.</em></p>
<p><strong><em>Stay Tuned the second part of this interview will be posted tomorrow on my blog.</em></strong></p>
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		<title>Taking off</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 17:22:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ <p>Hey all I just updated my schedule and although I know it says I will be here after 2 pm I have decided instead to take the day off&#8230;&#8230;.if you would like to set up an appointment still feel freee to mail me at Constance@enchantrixempire.com</p> <p>&#160;</p> <p>See you all tomorrow</p> ]]></description>
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<p>Hey all I just updated my schedule and although I know it says I will be here after 2 pm I have decided instead to take the day off&#8230;&#8230;.if you would like to set up an appointment still feel freee to mail me at <a href="mailto:Constance@enchantrixempire.com">Constance@enchantrixempire.com</a></p>
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		<title>Pass The Penis Sissy Style!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Apr 2012 15:29:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is Pass the Penis? This is a game we Mistresses love to play....the caller calls in and purchases a block of time (as much as you like) and then gets passed around from lady to lady to be played with and toyed with. How much time you spend all together is up to you just like how much time you spend with each lady is up to you. You can hand pick the ladies ahead of time or ask our lovely dispatchers to just surprise you. If you do an hour of pass the penis and do 10 minutes with each lady that is 6 different ladies that get to tease and deny and even torment you! Sounds like fun right? Try it and you will see it is amazing!!!!  <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/2012/04/pass-the-penis-sissy-style/">Pass The Penis Sissy Style!</a></span>]]></description>
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<p>I had the pleasure of being included in a game of <a href="http://www.passthepenis.com/">pass the penis </a>only it was with a sissy Ms Claire&#8217;s Jolene in fact and my goodness did I have a good time.</p>
<h2>What is Pass the Penis?</h2>
<p>This is a game we Mistresses love to play&#8230;.the caller calls in and purchases a block of time (as much as you like) and then gets passed around from lady to lady to be played with and toyed with. How much time you spend all together is up to you just like how much time you spend with each lady is up to you. You can hand pick the ladies ahead of time or ask our lovely dispatchers to just surprise you. If you do an hour of pass the penis and do 10 minutes with each lady that is 6 different ladies that get to <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/tease_and_denial_phone_sex.html">tease and deny</a> and even torment you! Sounds like fun right? Try it and you will see it is amazing!!!!</p>
<h3>Sissy Pass the Penis</h3>
<p>In this case <a href="http://mistressphonesexchat.com/two-mistress-cam-fun-with-a-sissy-slut/">Jolene, Ms Claire&#8217;s sissy</a>, wanted a marathon session and did 40 pass the sissy calls and each lady got to use and tease and deny Jolene because Ms Claire gave strict instructions not to allow her to cum. She came well prepared and not only was dressed up like a sissy but she had many sex toys to play with during the calls.</p>
<h3>What I did with Jolene</h3>
<p>I was her 20th call making me the half way point mistress&#8230;.when I saw the camera before our session started I could see  <a href="http://sissyschool.com/whatisasissy.html">sissy </a>slut Jolene playing for another lady and let me tell you it was HOT!!!!! Once our call connected Jolene and I talked about the session where she sucked cock for Ms Claire on web cam while I had the pleasure to watch!! I only chit chatted a few minutes because I wanted to get down to business&#8230;..Jolene showed me her Hitachi Wand which I also have and she commented that it seemed many ladies have them (hmmm wonder why?) I decided to do something different instead of just using the wand on her clitty I had her insert a big butt plug into her sissy pussy and press the Hitachi wand against it&#8230;..she was BLOWN AWAY nobody had done that to her thus far (something I am thrilled about I was different than every other lady) But more thrilling to me was Jolene had never thought of using the wand that way and as a result she was VERY excited!!!!!</p>
<h3>Passing the Sissy On</h3>
<p>As our session was coming to a close I told her to keep the butt plug in and wait for the next sexy lady to be on the line&#8230;..What a fantastic session filled with lots of teasing that sissy clitty and using her toy in a way she never expected&#8230;..just so everyone knows I continued to watch Jolene on web cam after our session ended and needless to say it was one hell of a hot sissy slut show!!!!!!</p>
<p>Thank you ms Claire for including me on this <a href="http://www.extremecocktease.com/pass_the_penis.php">Extreme Pass the Penis</a> game and thank you Jolene, you were a treat!!!</p>
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		<title>A Chastity Interview with Richard from Australia</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm? At times very frustrating in a good way, it makes me horny and very keen to be kinky but the flip side is that I find it can be de-motivating as I find it is not meeting my needs from the play. I think this is why I am not able to become a collard slave, it is just not in my nature to submit for long periods of time, I need it and love getting off on it but once it is over I need to return to the vanilla world until the mood takes me again. I wish I could do more and I have tried but I now know this it is not for me, I am kink in the bedroom only in a way.  <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/2012/03/a-chastity-interview-with-richard-from-australia/">A Chastity Interview with Richard from Australia</a></span>]]></description>
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<p>This is the last one I have to post so if you&#8217;re interested in doing a Chastity Interview with me please shoot me an e-mail</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Are you locked in a <a href="http://www.malechastityphonesex.com/types_of_chastity_devices.php">chastity device </a>right now?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>Yes, you locked me up this morning in my new and first ever metal device.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Is most of your <a href="http://www.malechastityphonesex.com/main.php">chastity </a>play real, or fantasy?</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>Real in that I have been locked up by Mistresses at LDW and by a number of Pro-Dommes I have seen in the past.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>When you considered giving <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/orgasmcontrol.html">orgasm control </a>over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>Both, I find it very exciting at first but then the reality of it hits me, this is not just about not getting to cum but the difficulties it brings with day to day life, playing sport, going to the toilet in the pub given you have to sit down and the fact I feel I tend to focus on my kinks too much which is not sensible in terms of work and other social stuff.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>Having said all of that I do get off in a big way being locked up, it drives my need to be kinky, a slut / whore and craving humiliation from a dominate woman. </em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Do you currently have a keyholder?</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>Yes and no. No in that I don’t have a formal arrangement with anyone but as Ms Constance locked me in today I will try to stay in until she releases me.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>I have failed at this many times. I live a long way from the USA so don’t feel comfortable handing over the keys plus I would really like to find a local keyholder to cuckold me. </em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>Very sexual and dominant, that is strict while caring for her submissive, willing to push limits but to do so while taking the capabilities and needs of the sub into consideration.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>She also must be 100% trust worthy</em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>How many chastity devices have you purchased?</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>I have purchased 4 devices, a CB2000, CB3000, Birdlock and Metal Attica (Aus Only)</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>The CB2000 was ok but the cock rings were not fun to put on, I did buy rings for a CB3000 to use with the CB2000 and this improved things.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>The CB3000 I liked at lots, it controlled me well but when I tried to get hard it gave me enough constriction to excite me. I did snap one of the pins from on the cage but I think that was me trying to masturbate while locked up.</em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>The Birdlock was good from a comfort point of view but I could make myself cum in it so didn’t work that well really.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>The Metal Attica is new, only worn it for a week so far and it was more comfortable than I expected. We will see how we go.</em></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Ever consider complete and <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/long_term_chastity.html">permanent chastity </a>with no hope of release?</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>Yes, but it really does not appeal to me, I think I am a two to six week person that needs to cum otherwise I become bored and a bit resentful. I think I need the challenge of pleasing a Mistress to earn an orgasm, this can be in many forms She wishes such as Small Penis humiliation, cuckolding, Slut play etc. But there needs to be release and a break every few weeks.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>I had been seeing Pro-Dommes for a number of years and I found one that started to engage with me over and above the session time, from this trust developed and we started to explore more, I had read about chastity and suggested I get a CB2000, she agreed and when I would confirm a session she would give me a time to lock myself in, she kept the keys so once in there was no going back. The average time prior to the session was 5 days in chastity.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><em><span style="color: #365f91;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;">This would make me hornier for our session which in turn meant my limits could be pushed. She was my first Strap On, my first coerced bi (cock sucking another male sub) and the first Mistress to feed me my own cum. </span></span></span></span></em></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>Six weeks</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>When you aren’t locked up, do you practice <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/male_orgasm_denial_benefits.html">orgasm denial</a>?</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>No, I masturbate 4 to 5 times a week.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>I would say 50% but it is often as part of another kink, these kinks have evolved over the years as new areas of play have been introduced to me. Since calling LWD Mistress the areas of cuckolding and cream pies have really become the focus of my fantasies. To the point my new year’s resolution is to have a real cream pie.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>What did it feel like the first time be be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to? </strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>Very exciting but a little painful, I would say to anyone trying it go slowly.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?</strong></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>At times very frustrating in a good way, it makes me horny and very keen to be kinky but the flip side is that I find it can be de-motivating as I find it is not meeting my needs from the play.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><em>I think this is why I am not able to become a collard slave, it is just not in my nature to submit for long periods of time, I need it and love getting off on it but once it is over I need to return to the vanilla world until the mood takes me again. I wish I could do more and I have tried but I now know this it is not for me, I am kink in the bedroom only in a way.</em></span></span></span></p>
<p>This interview was a great one and we all know how much I love Chastity and <span class='bm_keywordlink'><a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com" target="_blank">orgasm denial</a></span>!!! I would love to hear from more chastity guys so please mail me <a href="mailto:constance@enchantrixempire.com">constance@enchantrixempire.com</a> Or perhaps I should do cuckold interviews or cum slut interviews????</p>
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		<title>Sissy Girl Samantha Surprises Her Mistress</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2012 00:17:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Empress Constance</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone knows I adore sissy Samantha and there will be much more of her sissy adventures to read about in the future so stay tuned...you never know what this slut will be up to next but one thing is for sure I will be showing her off to some of my favorite mistress friends!!!  <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/2012/03/sissy-girl-samantha-surprises-her-mistress/">Sissy Girl Samantha Surprises Her Mistress</a></span>]]></description>
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<p>It has been some time since I have mentioned my <a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/2011/01/sissy-girl-samantha/">sissy girl</a> Samantha so I thought no time like the present to share with you all about this sissy slut!</p>
<h3>Where has my sissy been</h3>
<p>We have done regular <span class='bm_keywordlink'><a href="http://www.voxerotic.com" target="_blank">phone sex</a></span> sessions since I have last written but due to some real life interruptions we have gotten off track on our goals to make her my sissy cock sucking slut&#8230;..but rest assured as these real life situations get taken care of we are getting right back on track again.</p>
<h3>Sissy Surprised her Mistress</h3>
<p>My <a href="http://femphone.co.uk/what_is_purging.php">sissy purged</a> all her things due to as I mentioned real life issues getting in the way but she assigned to start replacing those items which she did but I had no idea just how much she shopped ! I was under the impression that she had only picked up a few make up item but to my surprise a very pleasant surprise my sissy Samantha was fully dressed in her sissy lingerie surprising her mistress totally and pleasing me very much in the process.</p>
<h3>Sissy Lingerie always excites her</h3>
<p>Wearing her <a href="http://www.femphone.com/lingerie.html">sissy lingerie</a> has always made the little clitty stand at attention and this night that little clitty was just dripping and aching&#8230;&#8230;she is just such a natural sissy and looks so good in her sissy lingerie that it was a shame she could not wear it all the time&#8230;.but now due to her surprising me she is back in it every day and that clitty is staying excited non stop!!</p>
<h2>Sissy bought a new dildo</h2>
<p>Not only did she surprise me with the sissy lingerie but she had also purchased a big beautiful cock like the one she had before she purged and you can bet I had her sucking and fucking that dildo in no time. Her moans make me smile and tingle as she sucks and fucks that cock and I have no doubt when it comes time she is going to be a natural at sucking real cock!</p>
<h2>Sissy Sleeps in nightie</h2>
<p>After some serious play time with that big beautiful cock and an explosive orgasm my sissy did what any cum slut sissy should do and she licked up every bit of that sissy juice! As we said our good nights she was reminded that she will be sleeping in her nightie every night again like she used to and was told this is the only way my<a href="http://sissyschool.com/whatisasissy.html"> sissy </a> girl should be sleeping&#8230;&#8230;of course she was thrilled and had sweet sissy dreams because of her sissy lingerie.</p>
<p><strong>Everyone knows I adore sissy Samantha and there will be much more of her sissy adventures to read about in the future so stay tuned&#8230;you never know what this slut will be up to next but one thing is for sure I will be showing her off to some of my favorite mistress friends!!!</strong></p>
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		<title>A Chastity Interview with Matty0507 from Oregon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Empress Constance</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm? That is a very exciting feeling. Goddess Mandy and I use that now during our phone calls. I have to beg to be granted orgasm and trust me; she does refuse me at times. I think the longer I go during orgasm denial the more intense the feeling of not knowing, to a point of almost desperation at times.  <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://intelligentfemdom.com/2012/03/a-chastity-interview-with-matty0507-from-oregon/">A Chastity Interview with Matty0507 from Oregon</a></span>]]></description>
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<p><strong>This is an interview that matty thought would not be very helpful since he is not in chastity, but for me it is not just about men in chastity&#8230;it is about <a href="http://www.malechastityphonesex.com/chastity_from_the_male_perspective.php">how men feel about chastity</a> whether they are in it or not.</strong></p>
<p><em>Hello Ms. Constance.  Thanks for the opportunity to do this interview.  And I have to agree with DC Mike, your pictures do not do you justice. </em></p>
<p><strong>Are you locked in a <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/chastity_training_phone_sex.html">chastity </a>device right now?<br />
  </strong><em>I am not locked in a chastity device at the moment, but I am practicing <span class='bm_keywordlink'><a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com" target="_blank">orgasm denial</a></span> with Goddess Mandy.  With the constraints of our relationship, my word and promise to Goddess Mandy are my chastity device.</em><strong>  </strong></p>
<p><strong> Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?<br />
  </strong><em>As of now it is very real.  I have only cum while on the phone with Goddess Mandy since I began practicing orgasm denial nearly 5 months ago.  We have made an agreement that if I meet a woman and were planning on having sex with her that I need to contact her and ask permission, again as if I had a real chastity device on.  We have even talked about purchasing a real chastity device with Goddess Mandy being the only key holder.</em><strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>When you considered giving <a href="http://www.extremecockcontrol.com/masturbation_management_orgasm_denial.php">orgasm control</a> over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?<br />
 </strong><em>I honestly have never ever thought about it until I began exploring EE, and it excites me very much.  My whole life I have masturbated when I want as much as I want.  I have had all the control.  The thought of giving that sexual control to someone else is amazing.   It is almost like you are being put on a sexual diet.</em><strong>  </strong></p>
<p><strong>Do you currently have a keyholder? <br />
</strong><em>Goddess Mandy is my key holder so to speak.  No Ms. Constance I did not drop that on purpose to see if I could see up your skirt.  Can I get some water? It is very hot in here.</em><strong></strong></p>
<p><strong> How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?<br />
 </strong><em>My ideal key holder would be someone that knows me, cares for me and that I trust completely.  I would want them to know what my limits are, gently pushing me beyond them.  A great Mistress will push your limits, gradually, not exponentially.  If your limits are pushed beyond your capabilities to adapt, you will fail, and eventually loose interest, and disappoint your Mistress.  As deep as your desire is to please her if she always sets you up to fail with limits way beyond what you are capable of, you will begin each new process with the thought of failure in the back of your mind that you can never please your Mistress.</em><strong></strong></p>
<p><strong> How many <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/chastity_devices.html">chastity devices</a> have you purchased?<br />
 </strong><em>None at the moment.  But when I do go to purchase one I will contact the resident specialist Gummy, on what one might be right for me.</em><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Ever consider complete and <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/long_term_chastity.html">permanent chastity</a> with no hope of release?<br />
</strong><em> I would like to think I could do that, but lets be realistic here.  I know that wouldn’t work for me.  If there were never any hope of release what would be my motivation? The thought of being able to orgasm keeps me going, keeps me wanting to please; it is an unbelievable motivational tool.  If I never have hope of release, the battle is over, there is no power exchange, and the excitement of chastity would be over for me,  As well as my will to want to serve my Mistress.</em><strong>   </strong></p>
<p><strong> Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?<br />
 </strong><em>At this point I am still experimenting with it.  I basically just discovered after joining EE and found it really exciting.  So there was no specific point in my life as of yet when the light bulb came on and I realized this was my kink.  But I definitely feel it can be one of the many.</em><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong> What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms? When you aren’t locked up, do you practice <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com/male_orgasm_denial_benefits.html">orgasm denial</a>?<br />
 </strong><em>The longest time period I have gone between orgasms is 38 days.  I know I am in the minor leagues while Gummy is batting cleanup for the Rangers in the big leagues.  38 days was very difficult for me. Goddess Mandy has promised that if I go 39 days there is a picture she is going to show me, but if I go 50 days, she will not just show me the picture, she will let me keep it.  I am not using a chastity device as of now I am just practicing orgasm denial.  I think for me, if my Mistress wanted me to, I would practice orgasm denial even when I wasn’t locked up.</em><strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?<br />
</strong><em> 25% maybe, though I no longer masturbate alone, it is always on the phone with Goddess Mandy.  But I do think about chastity at times during the day.  When I connect with Goddess Mandy at times during the week she reminds me about how many days it has been, and she also reminds me that she is not in chastity.  And tells me about the times she has had sex or masturbated.  That is when I really think and fantasize about chastity.  I love the thought of being denied while she it not being denied.  That power exchange is unbelievably exciting to me.</em><strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>What did it feel like the first time be  locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?<br />
 </strong><em>At this time this question does not apply because I do not currently own a chastity device.</em><strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?<br />
 </strong><em>That is a very exciting feeling.  Goddess Mandy and I use that now during our phone calls.  I have to beg to be granted orgasm and trust me; she does refuse me at times.  I think the longer I go during orgasm denial the more intense the feeling of not knowing, to a point of almost desperation at times. </em></p>
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<p><em>Thank you so much Ms. Constance for the interview, can I give you a hug? No your right, a hand shake works also.</em></p>
<p><strong>If you would like to share your thoughts about chastity and do an interview please contact me at <a href="mailto:Constance@enchantrixempire.com">Constance@enchantrixempire.com</a></strong><em> </em></p>
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