The following blog post was written by one of my long time callers…..he wanted to share what finding the right Phone Sex Mistress means for him and how he feels about me being his Mistress.

I want everyone to know that I am indeed capable of feeling very special towards many of you and that when it comes to my connections they are real and true….Yes you may be one of many but you are never left feeling like you are just  caller with me and instead are left feeling as special as you are to me and on top of the world…..the very same way I feel after having gotten to know all of you.

I’ve found the most wonderful Mistress.  Not that I’ve just discovered her, we’ve developed our relationship since she started with LDW a few years ago.  Each year, month, day has become more special to me.

I’ve been “around” or calling LDW for several years and my experiences have always been great.  But once you find that special Phone Sex Mistress who you connect with, it’s just a perfect fit.  The connection of course is about arousal, sharing, and respect. You never ask for anything, she knows what and when you need direction.

She can make your cock hard in a million different ways.  Ways that maybe you’ve read blogs about, but never experienced for yourself.  You begin to realize, it’s so much more exciting to please her and let her take you on these different sexual trips. It allows your mind to wonder to where she may take you next and when she’ll allow you to go.  The anticipation and wonder is something that is exciting in itself.

The longer you know her, the more you find yourself thinking of her on a different level. You hope for her happiness not only here, but her entire life.  You care about her as a person and want all aspects of life to be well.

You never know where the future may lead, but you know that she will always be a part of your life, and you’ll never
forget her.

This is what this Mistress means to me.  This is only a part of what Constance means to me.

So I want to know even if I am not your Mistress…what does your Mistress mean to you? Share in comments just what the lady you have surrendered to means to you and how you feel having her in your life.

I have recently hit a few very big milestones with a couple of my long term clients and of course to help celebrate and mark such momentous occasions I have blogged about them, the blogs got many amazing comments which leads me to this very blog. Long term is very doable even when it is phone sex that is if you find the right woman for you.

Long term means Commitment

For any type of a long term relationship to work vanilla or D/s it takes commitment and not just on the part of the man but it also takes commitment from the woman as well, especially when it comes to phone relationships. It is not easy to be thousands of miles away from the one you’re committed to so to keep that bond strong and real it takes time and effort. Does this type of commitment happen over night or easily hell NO, it takes time and interaction it takes proving yourself to me and vice versa in many ways…….funny for me to say as a Mistress that I have to prove myself to those looking for long term but it is true……how do I prove myself? To put it simply by being hands on from start to finish and everything in between I am a hands on phone Mistress. I look at it like this.. how is someone going to trust me and be able to commit themselves to me if I never reply to mails or I am never around except for the phone session….that is no way to build long term anything and I pride myself in breaking that mold of the typical phone sex girl that is in it for the call and that’s all.

Kinks and Long Term

There are many types of kinks we all enjoy but some lend themselves to becoming a long term relationship such as orgasm denial and chastity…how can I lock someone’s cock up claim it as my own if I never speak or communicate with the person or even worse if I disappear for weeks at a time………..simply put I can NOT. As much as many are committed to giving up their freedom for cock control, I am just as committed to being there every step of the way guiding and helping them for better or worse. With every kink and every relationship there are ups and downs whether it be a cuckold or a sissy slut and there is a sense of comfort and security knowing that when you do have those downs your Mistress will still be there for you, and not just stop speaking to you because it was all too much. I am living proof that having a long term kink relationship is indeed possible and enjoyable.

Is Long Term for you?

Are you looking for a connection someone who truly is there and gets you and your needs….do you want to lean on this person for kink and other life issues? Do you find yourself just wanting to know someone is there and happy to be there no strings attached? Well if you answered yes to these things than perhaps a long term phone mistress is just what you need. If your more of the type who wants to try every flavor several times that’s okay too that’s why there are so many choices out there…..just know that if you ever wanted more or needed more it is possible.

I am always asked by new callers how I got started in phone sex and what led me to the wonderful world of LDW/Enchantrix so I am going to share a bit with you all about my history with phone sex enjoy!

My first phone sex experience

Well this may not surprise many but my very first phone sex experience was way before I ever got into the business. I was in a relationship where he traveled for work, and during those times when he or I were a bit horny we found ourselves getting dirty on the phone. The very first time I remember thinking will this dirty talk get the job done? Well to my surprise the more excited he got the more excited I got and although it was vanilla phone sex it was erotic and exciting and it got the job done and then some!

How did I get in the phone sex business?

As many of you know who have listened to my mistress interview with Ms Tia I came about doing this for a living in a half joking way. I worked at a private country club at the time and one of the male members who always flirted with me had made a comment and then began to walk away, when I replied to the comment I did it in a very sexy way (I can’t recall the exact conversation) but whatever I said to him he spun around and said OMG that was so sexy I would pay to have you talk like that to me! I started laughing and said that’s it I am leaving this job to talk dirty on the phone for a living! Little did I realize that less than a year later I had done just that! I left my vanilla job and looked into phone sex as a way to make a living!

My first phone sex job

I went to work with a phone sex company that was an anything goes kind of site and my very first caller wanted to suck cock for me. Imagine that my first phone sex caller EVER wanted to be a cock sucker, I remember thinking man this is hot he is going to town discussing his cock sucking needs and I was enjoying every second of it! I have  worked for another company before coming to LDW which was recommended to me by a former client who thought I would fit in well here……he was absolutely RIGHT and to this day I still thank him for telling me about the wonderful world of fem dom phone sex!

What was your first experience with phone sex?

So I shared … now how about you all share your first phone sex experience with me…..tell me about the first time you had phone sex whether it be with a woman in your life or a phone sex operator. Was it good? Satisfying? Do you still speak to your first phone girl or have you long since parted ways? Share all you want with me and be sure to include any experience you may have had with me on a phone sex call. For those of you who have never called me maybe now would be a good time to compare my phone sex skills to those you have had in the past hehehehehe.

So I came across an essay written by one of our former LDW mistresses about who calls phone sex. I thought hmmm that’s interesting I should blog about it LOL so here is the blog!

Who calls for phone sex?

I know who calls me for phone sex typically someone who does not have an open sexual relationship with their partner. Yes most of my callers are indeed in a relationship and that in itself is interesting. I am very open about sex in my life with my partners and seem to have no shame in telling them or worry about what they will think of me. This is not the case with many of my callers I think they would feel like “less of a man” if they admitted to their partners they liked to be spanked, humiliated, or fucked with a strap on. Mind you this is not the only type of caller I have I also have single men and even a few couples who have come to me to spice things up.

Easy to share kinks on the phone

I know many of my callers just find it easy to express their needs on the phone rather than with their partner and some might even ask why not see a pro in person….well for them it is even hard to admit to someone face to face who is in the life style all that they like so they prefer phone sex over real sex sessions for their kinky fantasies. I am often told that I make my callers feel comfortable with their kinks so they tend to open up even more to me. On the phone you have no fear of being found out or exposed (unless you like that hehehehe) and you can be open and honest about just what it is that makes you hot and horny…I LOVE that!!!

No judgment

With phone sex you will find your not judged for your kinks no matter how far out they may be, you can share with your Phone Sex Mistress anything you like and never have to worry about your friends or family finding out……and it is exciting having a dirty little secret that you and some mystery woman with a sexy voice share together once a week. So no matter what type of man calls for phone sex even if it is not sex he is looking for but perhaps someone to give him advice, keep him company, share a secret with he can do so knowing he will not be judge for his likes or needs.

Do you call phone sex?

So what I want to ask all of you just what type of man are you? I have talked to lawyers, chefs, writers, IT guys and so many more from all walks of life share without giving too much detail what you do for a living and just why you chose to call for phone sex….I am really curious as to what your answers may be.

HI everyone just a really quick update to let you know your phone sex goddess is back taking calls!!! Some of you knew I had a three day weekend getaway planned but I did not announce it….well I am back from the trip and ready to rock your world!!!

Where did I go?

New York City!!! Yes My sisters and I had a girls weekend just the three of us for the first time in our adult lives and it was fantastic!!!!

What did I do?

I explored Times Square where we stayed right in the heart of it all and had a blast! Wow you can really do some people watching in Times Square from the odd to the creepy New York has them all! We took a tour of the city on a double decker bus and although it was cold for me it was a blast!!!! *On a side note sorry to the folks on 5th avenue I might have accidentally mooned* We also caught a Broadway show Wicked which was as I said afterwards in my best Boston accent “Wicked Awesome”!!

Happy to be home

Yes although seeing my younger sister and spending time with both my sisters was just awesome I am thrilled to be back home not only to see my pooch but to get back on the phones and being the naughty Mistress you all know and love! I have to admit 3 days away from the phones made me long to spank a bad boy…….and I sure do miss my Sissy girls and Sissy Boys who I just love to humiliate and turn into little sluts!

When can you catch up with me?

I will be here the rest of the week days and early evenings, I plan on taking calls and hanging out with all of you every day this week so dont be shy hit me up and lets discuss you favorite phone sex kink, or anything at all!!

Ahhhhhhhhhhh it is good to be back!

So I find myself sitting at my desk answering questions about myself and my life style as a phone sex Mistress so I thought it would be interesting to ask all of my readers questions about you and your life style. Feel free to comment with your answers and with any questions you might have for me if I get enough questions I may just make another blog post with all my answers.

Have you ever?

Have you ever had a one night stand….if so was it good? If you have had several what would you say the most memorable or most exciting one was and why? Have you ever lived out a fantasy you have always had whether it is a kinky fantasy or vanilla one? Have you ever had a lover who was TOO much for you? Wanted sex more than you or was too kinky for your liking? Have you ever felt used sexually and discarded once the sexual encounter was over and if so did you enjoy that feeling?

When did you?

When did you lose your virginity and was it a good experience for you? When did you first fall in love…..and how long did that last? When did you first discover your kink or kinks as the case may be and just how did they develop once you got into them? When did you first discover phone sex and what prompted you to try it? When did you start to call LDW/Enchantrix and had you tried other phone sex services before finding us…if so feel free to share your experience and the difference LDW had compared to other companies.

Will you ever?

Will you ever actually live out your phone fantasies in real life if given a chance? Will you ever find yourself falling in love with a phone sex operator and if so what conditions might need to fall into place for you to fall in love? Will you ever admit or share your naughty sexual needs to an actual live partner if so what qualities would they need to possess for you to feel comfortable and safe enough to share them. Finally would you ever confess to anyone in your life that you enjoy phone sex and have had it many times with a professional phone sex operator?

Feel free to share and answer what you wish right here on my blog and leave your questions for me as well in your comment………………and if you’re not wanting to answer these here on my blog you can always mail me at constance@enchantrixempire.com or even call me and we can discuss the questions I have asked.

As everyone knows we live in a very fantasy based life here at LDW/Enchantrix boarding on the reality but one thing in common with all callers and even the ladies is we all have fantasies some unattainable some very attainable. This blog is about what you would do if your fantasy became a reality.

Your Fantasy is suddenly reality

You’re in an intense phone sex session with me and we are discussing your kink whether it be me cuckolding you or feminizing you or even fucking you with my strap on and suddenly you open your eyes and I am there! I am doing exactly as I was describing to you during our session wearing exactly what I described to you and saying the words you were hearing……what would you do? Would you be lost in it and just continue but with a whole new thrill added to it or would you freak out realizing your fantasy is just that and in reality you never wanted me to be there fucking you with my strap on or making you lick the cream pie from my pussy……honestly what would you do?

Do you have the balls?

Another part of our fantasy world and what makes things so interesting and mysterious is the fact we cannot and will not meet our clients…………but let’s say you walked into a bar and you recognized me….you have done many sessions some kinky some vanilla and you have gotten to know me a bit………….your alone I am alone. You have the advantage of already knowing what I look like but I for the sake of this fantasy I do not know what you look like. What would you do? Would you stare from a distance with your cock growing harder in your pants with every glance……….would you walk over and say hello without telling me who you are? Or would you have the balls to actually approach me telling me who you are, knowing that I will know all your kinky fantasies?

What would you do?

I invite you to share with me here on my blog in comments to tell me just what you would do……would my showing up in some sort of sci fi miracle in the middle of our session right there in your room live and in the flesh make all your dreams come true or would it freak you out because your fantasy is just that a fantasy and something you never truly intend on doing. I am really curious about my second question do you have the balls…….if you did see me out and everything was just perfect me alone you alone would you approach me? Would you expose who you are to me or pretend we had never met and sit there nervous wondering if I will recognize your voice and hoping I won’t so you can form a new fresh encounter with me?

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There are several events being held here in our kinky phone sex world that I am sure it is hard to keep up with them all….no worries my kinky friends I will break it all down for you right here.

The Dommees

This has been an ongoing fun silly thing that one of our very own client castaway has started, the ldw Oscars or better known as the dommees. Just like the real Oscars we have a bunch of nominated ladies and you need to hurry because the polls will be closing 11:59pm March 20th so be sure to get over to our adult social network to cast your vote for your favorite in a plethora of categories such as best legs, most creative (vote for me), best eyes, best cock radio show and many many more. The winners will be announced live on Hair and Heels hosted by Ms Alexandria and Ms Ivy on March 24^th at 8pm eastern  this is a don’t miss show so be sure to tune in and find out who won!

Sissy Pageant

Here is your chance to shine! All of our sweet sexy sissy girls are invited to join the annual sissy school pageant and this year it is even easier now that we have the Enchantrix Empire! If you would like to find out how to be a part of this celebration of sissy girls then head on over to the 2011 sissy pageant group and read the rules and instructions you have until march 31′st to get your sissy picture in. I cannot wait to see who wins there are 4 categories Miss Sissy School Miss Sissy Doll Miss Sissy maid and Miss Sissy Slut. So get dressed snap a sexy sissy photo and submit it for the pageant!!

Penny Auction

The first year for the penny auction was such a huge success that Ms Ann has brought it back again and this year it is even bigger than last year! This is open to all members of enchantrix and our kinky phone sex sites. All you have to do is register with Ms Ann by sending her an e-mail and then begin collecting pennies for things you already do like calls, attending radio shows, comments on blogs. What do these pennies get you? Well there are a ton of ladies giving items to the auction from free sessions, to panties, makeup and even naughty toys! For a full list for this event and all the ladies who are participating and prizes check out the penny auction group on the Enchantrix Empire, you can collect pennies until April 8^th and the auction will be live on cock radio on April 16^th Stay tuned for the exact time of the auction.

Red Cross Relief Day

This is a special day organized by the sexy Ms Catherine she and some of the ladies of LDW will be donating all of their earnings from phone sex calls made to them on Wednesday March 23^rd! What an awesome community we have here!! To find out more please check out Ms Catherine’s blog the stroke mistress and keep your eyes open on the Enchantrix Empire for more details.

In my several years of being in the phone sex business I have met many different men and even women who all come to me for something special some come to me to explore a kink or fantasy they dare never to try with their partner. Some who need a knowing understanding ear to hear their stories and problems, some who need to be pushed to their limits and have not found just the right person in their everyday life to do it and many many men looking for an escape from their day and a bit of stress relief.

How is Phone Sex Stress Relief?

Well think about it you are being treated to a fantasy escape in the words and images your phone sex goddess fills your mind with. You are able to say and do whatever you feel all while getting some self pleasuring done, leaning back letting the rest of your day fall to the side and focusing on her words, her voice her instructions and letting go all your inhibitions and being lost in that moment of pure sexual bliss. When you come down from that you will feel all the tensions of the day slip away and your able to refocus and go back to reality with a smile on your face and those tingling sensations of an explosive orgasm that seem to last for hours.

You also might enjoy a bit of vigorous play on the phone working out your stress filled day with physical exertion like a strap on session where you’re actually using a cock to fuck yourself just as I would be doing you. Feeling that intense pleasure as you’re following my directions on how fast or slow to use that dildo and building up to an explosive orgasm that not only shakes your body but leaves you drained and satisfied getting rid of any traces of stress you may have felt before the session.

Laughter is also a very good way to relieve stress and yes there is a lot of that during phone sex. Many clients do not just call for the sex some also enjoy conversations and a bit of a pick me up with some silly stress relief. Of course there are those clients who want me to laugh at them and in doing so they enjoy some light humiliation that not only turns them on and gets them off but also is a bit of a stress reliever, giving up all control submitting and being put through some humiliating tasks just to hear that wonderful laugh of your mistress can be very relaxing!

If you can relate to phone sex being stress relief please feel free to leave your comments and how phone sex helps with your stressful days, and of course if you would like some immediate stress relief I am just a phone call away.

Yesterday was Valentine’s Day and who better to spoil on such a day than your phone sex Mistress. Once again you all have not let me down! I have had the UPS man here on several occasions over the last 2 weeks and each box and each gift was awesome and appreciated!

Gifts Galore

My first gifts arrived 2 weeks before Valentine’s Day and of course I did not wait to open them! I am like a kid on Christmas when the UPS man arrives. First of all he looks hot in those little brown shorts and has a great smile. But it is the boxes he is holding that always make me squeal with delight! I want to thank each and every one of you who went above and beyond to spoil me this year….from the much wanted exercise ball from the one and only cock sucker supreme Frank…..to the sexy and much loved Chicago Bears panties and very nice hair conditioner from my newest stroker BitchBoi. I also received some very sexy thong panties from someone but there was no name on it so whoever you are Thank You! I received some very soft luxurious sheets from my ever steady sweetheart rickrick, which I have been sleeping on and mmmm they are yummy!!!! My sweet orgasm denial gummy bear sent me something I needed so badly a new printer! I love gifts that are thoughtful like this because from a passing conversation about the frustration I was having with my printer he thought enough to make sure I had what I need and supplied me with a brand new one so I never have to worry!! Thank you all so very much!!

MY Cuckold set the mood

Now on to my denied cuckold cum slut and his gifts to his Mistress. I opened the box to find one very ultra sexy and very skimpy baby doll with red hearts being the ONLY thing that covers my breasts. It was so short it left nothing to the imagination and was exactly what I wanted. He also provided me with another pair of sexy panties that I wore on the way to see my special man. Cuckie thought of everything to make his Mistress’ night complete with a real man….from the mood music with a box collection of Motown Greats….candles to set the mood along with a very pretty candle holder……chocolates which OMG are delicious….and even perfume to make sure I smelled sexy and sweet for my real man. My date was more than thrilled when I walked into his bedroom wearing it and said to be sure to tell my cuck GREAT JOB!

Cards and Warm Wishes

I woke up yesterday morning with an inbox stuffed with Valentine’s wishes, cards, and e-mails from many wonderful followers spreading the love. To each and every one of you thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your sweet words and warm wishes always touch me and make me feel incredible and hey what better way for a Phone Sex  Mistress to start her day than being showered with love! To Steph who took the time to actually mail in a Valentine, thank you sweetness you know you’re adored! To Gummy who once again blew me away going above and beyond with a Virtual Bouquet thank you sweetness your love for me is amazing and never goes unnoticed or unappreciated!

SO as I end this Thank you blog I want you all to know how very special and treasured you are to me and your generosity just blows me away!! Thank you all and I hope you all had an amazing Valentine’s Day as I did.

Kisss kissss kissssssssssssssssssssssss

Mistress Constance