I am stating a brand new project and it is all about chastity! I will be interviewing volunteers on their views of chastity, look for a new interview every week right here!

This interview was with my very own chastity pet Gummy from Texas

1. Are you locked in a chastity device right now?

YES! I am in a Mature Metal Jail bird custom fit!

2. Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?

It used to be fantasy until I found the mistress I could trust and these days it is all real!

3. Do you currently have a key holder?

Yes she is long distance but we have overcome the long distance obstacles, through web cam and daily contact.

4. How would you describe your ideal Key Holder?

She is trustworthy, playful, harsh when I need it, no nonsense, and has a deep trust in me but also has some skepticism so she makes me go through the steps to ensure she is confident in knowing I am 100 % secure and locked up. She has to be attentive and not neglectful….and the biggest quality she has to be female!!!!!

 5. How many chastity devices have you purchased?

More than 5 but less than ten~ I went from one device to the next because I wanted to feel more secure and for it to be better………I liked all of them but something always made me turn against them. For instance one I really enjoyed was a metal one that used my piercing to lock my cock but I was allergic to the metal.

6. Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?

YES!!!! In fact I am currently at day number 511 of no orgasms! Will it go on forever I am not sure that is up to my key holder who I trust has my best interest at heart.

7. Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event? 

 I read an article in variations magazine…I didn’t even know what orgasm control or chastity was but when I read that article about a Lady who locked up her boyfriend it touched something in my soul and I just knew it was something I needed to explore more.

 8. What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?

511 days previous to this it was 170 days and I did that twice

9. When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?

Yes my key holder decides when and if I ever cum

10. When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?

I cannot masturbate and have not been able to freely in almost a year. Previous to being locked up I would edge only and chastity was at least 50% of the time what I was thinking about while stroking.

11. When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?

Both, it took me a long time to build up trust and in the beginning there was too much fright but once I found the right key holder my fears were set aside and now I cannot believe I lived without it so long

12. What did it feel like the first time be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?

This is going to sound odd but it was liberating I had absolutely no control so I was free to let my mind roam and go and not worry about the supposed goal of achieving an orgasm.

13. How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?

I love the mystery of not knowing and the security of knowing my key holder is in charge of it all and I never try to sway her in her decision it is totally up to her and I have no clue and I love that!

I have already gotten a ton of interest in these interviews and have several done but I would love to hear from all types of chastity lovers…..If you would like to do a chastity interview with me please contact me at constance@enchantrixempire.com

Yes another big day for gummy he has gone over a year now without an orgasm and today he has been locked in chastity for 200 days!!!

I am so proud of him and so proud of the relationship we have formed nothing brings two people closer together than long term denial and chastity!

What does the future hold for him and I?

More chastity and more denial in fact I really have no plans on allowing him to cum or for my cock to get any real freedom from chastity. He has not been out of his cb6000 in 9 weeks and he has managed pretty well and I could not be happier with keeping him locked up and denied even longer!

Is this extreme?

For many YES it is extreme but for those of us who truly enjoy it and actually get off on either locking up a cock or being the one with the locked cock it is not…in fact it is like a no man’s land for me I have never heard nor seen a man go so long without an orgasm so it is like uncharted territory for him and for myself!

For those of you who do think it is extreme don’t worry he will be unlocked from time to time for an edging session but I can assure you he nor myself has any plans on allowing him to cum. This is how he likes it and more important how I want it…and as his Mistress I always get what I want hehehehe

Yes, you read that title right!  As of today GummyBear has now officially been denied for one solid year!  August 22, 2010 was the last time he came and I have enjoyed this orgasm denial roller coaster!!!! I am so very proud of him for making it this long and I look forward to what the future holds!!!

Long Term Denial

Yes, if anything is long term I would say that not having an orgasm for a solid year is definitely long term denial! This is not something everyone can relate to, and to be honest, I never thought I would be that into….but I must say sitting here at my desk a year later, I have to say WOW! this has opened my eyes and made me love long term orgasm denial!!!

I can say over the year that we have had our ups and downs; the euphoric nature of being controlled always seems to win over all those moments of weakness when he would beg just to cum. Many times I got emails stating he was on fire and more turned on than he has ever been in his life, and being the one controlling his denial I must say is indeed a rush! I wish I could explain that better but a rush is truly like what it is…. reading those words and knowing I was the keeper of that cock truly and for real. is a power trip unlike any I have ever known!

Chastity Added to the Control

For about half  this past year he was able to stroke for me during our phone sex sessions but he was never obviously allowed to cum……then came chastity from the moment we locked that cock up it took his denial to a new level, no longer did he have the freedom to touch it when he liked, no longer did he get a full erection or wake up with morning wood, now that cock was totally mine and from the moment we locked my cock up till now I have no regrets, I have never once wavered or even thought about caving in.

He never knew when he would be allowed out of chastity for a bit of stroking during our sessions and that’s just the way I liked it, I have and will continue to have full control over that cock. Leading up to this amazing date he has not stroked in a month! After all we couldn’t have an accident when we were reaching such a huge date now could we?!

 Does he get to cum?

I bet you’re all dying to know…it has been a year on orgasm denial….locked in chastity for nearly 6 months….NOW NOW will he get to cum????? *laughing* well I certainly would not say here if he is or not but know this…as much as I love to be a cock control mistress, and as much as I have enjoyed this ride and his long term denial and chastity do you think I am going to allow the fun to end?

Feel free to leave your comments about this blog and what you think I should do from here…keep him lock and denied even longer or should I let him out to cum? I am not saying your opinions will sway me I have my plans for him but by all means tell me what you think should happen.

I love when I can make a man ache for me, one of my loyal followers was explaining to me about aching to stroke for me and I had him write in his words what aching to stroke for me was all about. He has been on denial for over 300 days and locked in chastity for over 100 the ache and desire keeps building and building and I could not be more thrilled with his progress and my power over his cock.

Below is what he had to say about aching to stroke for me.

Sure, it had only been seven days since I was last allowed to stroke for you, and after edging a few times, last week, it was right back to being locked up in chastity.  I was so looking forward to talking to you again, and begging to be allowed to experience your expert guided masturbation. 

Yes, it had only been a week, but my goodness gracious, what a “hard” and horny week it had been.   Perhaps it was the chastity but most likely it was the 308 days of orgasm denial that I had also endured.  All I know is that I was all lit up and totally on fire and ever so ready to stroke your cock.  It was more than just being horny; it was an underlying want to stroke, a need to stroke, and a real hunger to stroke.  Removing the chastity device and stroking your cock, always feels so special. The stroking feels so precious, so fantastic from the very first touch of my aching cock. 

 After being confined to a tube that allows minimum sensations, when the tube is removed, well your cock is super sensitive and It takes almost no time to get me right on the edge of orgasm.  Of course, I’m on orgasm denial  and there is no way that you are going to allow me to cum.  As insidious as it is to stroke, and edge, and then lock it back up for at least a week, at least I got to touch it.  I get to live on the memory of just how good it felt to stroke, to edge, and then bask in the afterglow of the perfect cock teasing phone sex session. 

 It was one year ago to the day that I turned over control of my orgasms to your capable hands.  Never in my wildest dreams did I think that 1 year later, I’d be locked in chastity, and on permanent denial.  Careful what you wish for indeed!!  Happy Anniversary, I’m having the time of my life and I wouldn’t change a thing!! ! 

Orgasm Denial is it for you?

Many can not handle the ache of wanting to stroke or being denied an orgasm and it is not for everyone. Is this something you have thought about? Would you like to dip your toe into the denial pool? I will help you decide if it is for you or not and please keep in mind not everyone who likes denial likes long term denial…..reach out to me and we will build a denial program that fits you.

I find myself smiling from ear to ear at the fact my boy gummy has been in chastity for 10 weeks and there is no end in sight! I have written about him and his ongoing long term denial and how I plan to NEVER let him cum again, but since those posts we have added chastity and today it has been 10 weeks since he was locked up!

Chastity and Devotion

It seems that chastity and devotion go hand in hand in this situation; there is nothing that makes a man more devoted to his Mistress more than her being the key holder to his chastity. I have to commend him for his great attitude and willingness to give up all control and letting me be the one running this show….as it should be. His devotion to me if this is even possible has gotten even stronger…and the fact he is so content and thrilled to be denied an orgasm and continue to be locked up unable to stroke makes me glow with glee!

Does he ever get out of chastity?

This is something I am asked from time to time….the answer is yes when I am in the mood and want to give him a brief break. I typically allow about 5-10 minutes of touching, it is amazing to me how being let out to touch has such a huge effect on him that he is close to cumming in seconds…but if your cock was locked up for 10 weeks you would be close to cumming when you finally got to touch too!! So the answer to does he ever get out is YES but very briefly and he is always locked in chastity before the end of our session.

Will it ever end?

As far as I am concerned it will never end, but as I always say I reserve the right to change my mind at any time I wish. He is completely and totally satisfied with being denied orgasms and locked up, so I see no reason why to end this now. Many of you do not understand it even go as far to say he is nuts orgasms are awesome why would someone not want to have one? Well to each their own I suggest you try not to figure out what makes him tick but instead figure out what makes YOU tick. His total up front nature about his denial and chastity and great attitude shows me over and over this is what’s right for him and more important what is right for US. So to answer that question NO it will never end at least not any time in the foreseeable future.

Are you interested in chastity?

Have you enjoyed a bit of chastity or wonder what it is all about? I suggest you start off slow and explore it…try a bit of short term denial first and work your way up to chastity and total denial. I may have him locked up for life but that certainly is not the case for everyone who comes to me seeking chastity. I will work with you one on one with your needs in mind and create a denial/ chastity program that will fit you.

I know I have spoken about long term denial several times here but this is just an update I could not resist writing about! Many of you were blown away by my long term denial slut Gummy and how he has now gone over 200 days without an orgasm……..now he is locked into chastity with ME In control.

Long Term Denial just got Harder

He has been denied for over 200 days with no end in sight in fact I plan to deny him for the rest of his life! What we used to do was he could edge and stroke as much as he wanted, I trusted him and still do because he wanted this long term denial I think even more than anyone I have ever known. In the interest of me having full and total control he wanted to be locked into chastity……..I never thought of it before for him because he is so obedient and didn’t want to fail and have an orgasm just as much as I didn’t want him too, So we are giving chastity a try so that I control it all.

Locking up his cock

He spent the entire week of his spring break in chastity wearing his cb6000 I was amazed at the total attitude change he had because of it, it seems having to be in chastity made him think of me even more every time he sits he thinks of me every time he stands he feels it and thinks of me EVERYTHING he does now is a constant reminder he is locked in chastity and denied by me forever. We had a short edging session after a week of him being locked and my goodness did he get to the edge fast! After just several minutes of edging that cock I had to have him cool down so I could SEE him lock back up my cock and for him to show me the serial numbers on the lock. What a thrill it is to see a cock locked in chastity knowing he cannot touch nor stroke without my permission.

Long term denial and Chastity

Now were into it a couple weeks he has been wearing his cb6000 to work every day with no bad side effects and his long term orgasm denial continues. I have to say the wonderful side effects to being in chastity have greatly improved his mood and his denial outlook and now he wants to be in chastity as long as he has been denied that’s over 200 days in chastity!! I have yet to decide if that is what we will do……but I am really considering it!! Tell me do you think you can handle a bit of long term denial? Have you ever been in chastity indefinitely? I would love to hear some comments from long term denial boys and chastity lovers!

 His Point of View

I have always enjoyed chastity and being locked up.  There is something “special” and “naughty” about having your cock locked up beneath your clothes.  I like the feeling of the chastity device and I have often referred to it as a type of security blanket.  I thought the transition of going from stroking and edging at will, to being locked up would be difficult but I never realized just how much chastity would amp up the intensity.  I am constantly horny and wanting to stroke.  My device doesn’t allow my cock to get more than about a quarter hard, but I am so horny all the time.  I absolutely love being locked up, but even more important is the fact that I’m locked up FOR someone.  I’ve enjoyed chastity before, but I was always my own keyholder.  Having Empress Constance in control of my chastity has taken my long term denial and kicked it up about a thousand notches.  I am so thankful that we decided to give chastity a go.  Now, that I’ve worn my device for awhile, I don’t see any reason not to continue.  I am very happy, very horny and very much under the control of Empress Constance.  It’s been an incredible journey and chastity has made it even more special.

As many of you know and have read right here on my blog I just love being a denial Mistress, denying of orgasms gives me such a charge I just simply can not begin to describe it! Being in long term denial has its many challenges and rewards just ask anyone who is on long term denial, but when going through long term denial you really should consider your prostate health and part of that is the milking of your prostate, today I am going to share a letter from an anal virgin and his story about the first time he  tried prostate milking with the aneros.

Why Milk Your Prostate?

Simply put to keep you healthy, when in long term denial the fluids build up and you need to express them and the best way to do this without orgasm is by prostate milking. Prostate milking can be achieved with many methods but the one I swear by, the easiest and most comfortable way  is by using the aneros. Those of you who have used it to enhance your orgasms by stimulating the male g-spot know the pleasures of the aneros, but you can use it to milk your prostate without orgasm as part of your ongoing long term denial.

His First Milking

This is the letter I got after my long term denial boy used the aneros for the first time, not only was it his first anal experience but it was also his first milking experience.

I have to hand it to you Empress Constance, you probably know my body better than I do myself.  When we first met a little over a year ago, anal penetration was hard limit of mine.  At 51 years of age, I assumed it always would be. Having gotten closer to you and reading your blogs and getting encouragement from you I finally decided that popping my anal cherry would be a nice goal to have.  You helped me select the product that would be best for me.  We decided on an Aneros to accomplish the cherry popping and also provide a milking to help my prostate health in conjunction with my long term denial.  

The toy arrived and  I really wanted to please you so after discussing with you on the phone some preliminary rules and guidelines I decided to try it out this afternoon.  I Was very nervous about the first time.  I thought it was going to hurt like hell so I really used the lube.  Amazingly enough, after just a few moments of learning to relax a particular muscle, the Aneros slid right in and was totally pain free.  So far so good, I thought.  The Aneros wasn’t really invasive at all.   I lay on my side and worked my muscles like the instructions had said.  I Wasn’t expecting anything.  The instructions and even you told me not to expect too much on the first time.  The important thing was to get used to the device and learn to relax, and then things would happen. 

 Well, after about 10 minutes I was still doing my exercises when I felt the strange sensation of something dripping from my cock.  I looked down and sure enough, even though I wasn’t even erect was fluid draining out of my cock.  I never had any indication from my body that this was about to happen.  The fluid changed from clear to a milky white and the consistency of cum.  This continued for a minute or so and then just stopped.  I would guess the amount of semen would be about half of what I would expel during a normal orgasm.  After cleaning up and examining my body and feelings I can say that the encounter was not an ordeal but something much more benign.  My body didn’t really feel any different other than a tightness in my testicles.  My emotional state was unchanged, no real endorphins released or anything like that; however, I feel super fantastic that I was able to have my anal cherry popped and a successful milking!  You are amazing and I am so glad I followed your advice.  Thank you very much for everything Empress Constance. 

Using the Aneros to aid in Male G-spot stimulation

Now as you read the Aneros is great for prostate milking for those long term denial boys, but it is also an awesome tool to reach one of the most intense orgasms of your life! The prostate is like a males G-spot using the Aneros in conjunction with masturbating will bring about one of the most intense all over body orgasms of your life! So if you have ever been curious about anal stimulation but always hesitant to try it, get you an Aneros and experiment with it and by all means lets use it during our next phone sex session, because I want to hear that explosive orgasm that you WILL have!

I am currently enjoying denying one of my subbies orgasms but this is not your usual short term denial this is a long term permanent  orgasm denial. He is at 103 days as of today since his last orgasm. WOW could you do it?

Types of Denial

1} Tease and delay: this type of denial is a fun one for me that I happen to enjoy very much and not just during phone sex sessions. I have enjoyed teasing and delaying men in my real life ever since I was in my early twenties. I find a great thrill factor in making a man hard and aching for me all day long leading him on and promising that BIG finish when we get in private only to leave him hard and horny when he goes to bed. I always have allowed release the following day if I did not already late at night. This type of denial is fun for me. Tease and delay… try it if you never have!

2} Short Term Denial: another fun form of orgasm denial because you can build it up and tease day after day (usually no more than a few days) and then finally allow that explosive release he had been building up. Short term denial can be as little as 2 days or 7 days depending on the denial boy. I find they build up a resistance once they have done it for a few days. You can push it a bit further and then the next time even further. I is fun to push the limits and drive them crazy!!

3} Long Term Denial:  this is something that I have been experiencing with gummy bear and he and I both are in uncharted territory. Right now his record was 101 days and we are currently  at 103 today as I write this. I have found that it has been fairly easy up to this point. He has only once begged to cum for me and it was very easy to deny him. He is allowed to stroke and edge as much as he likes but he is not allowed full release. I am sure you’re going WOW just like I am and I bet you’re wondering just how long can he go. Well, as far as I am concerned he will be denied orgasms for the rest of his life…….time will tell if he can handle it.

Edging while Denied

There is one thing I allow all denial subs to do and that is edge their cocks. If you’re not familiar with the art of edging then let me explain briefly for you. Edging is bringing yourself right to the brink of an orgasm and then stopping before you cum. Stroking and pulling that cock right to the edge is almost like having an orgasm and the more you master it the better and more intense it becomes. Edging while in denial is one way for the sub to feel great sexual pleasure without an orgasm and that is why I allow my denial boys to edge often. When you get to the point of 103 days edging only takes mere minutes and can feel very intense but you must have great self control not to just finish the job.

Being Denied Orgasms long term

At some point I will approach the subject of  prostate milking with my orgasm denial boy but until then his exact words the other night to the chat room were that being denied like this makes him horny all the time. In fact his exact words were “on fire.”  He is constantly aroused and always on fire! Long term denial is not for everyone but for those who enjoy it, like gummy bear and I it is downright amazing! So I ask you, as of today we are at 103 days of NO ORGASMS, could you handle it? Would you even attempt it?