I have had the pleasure of seeing Jolene locked in chastity and even got to share a very special ceremony on the phone with Ms Claire and a few other ladies….Jolene thank you Ms Claire is very lucky to have you as you are very lucky to have her…..enjoy everyone

Are you locked in a chastity device right now?

Yes i am, although i cannot be locked up 24/7, i generally put my device on in the morning and wear it all day.

Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?

It is real for me, ever since i gave control over to my Mistress approximately 7 months ago, i have only had orgasms at Her direction with the exception of one “accident”. We have frequent sessions during which She takes me to the edge but usually i go back into chastity without release.

When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?

Both. It excited me in that this was something i had fantasized about for a long time and was finally bringing to reality and it frightened me a bit in that i was a chronic masturbator (2-3 times per day) and wasn’t sure if i could handle it and end up failing.

Do you currently have a keyholder?

Unfortunately no, Mistress Claire holds a symbolic key, it is an actual copy of the key that goes to my device.

How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?

Someone that understands my need to be controlled and explore my submissiveness and would use that need to see how far down the bdsm path i can go. Someone that would also use that need for Her own pleasure and amusement.

Someone like my current Mistress (Claire).

How many chastity devices have you purchased?

Just the one i am currently wearing, a CB 6000.

Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?

That has been a long time fantasy of mine, under different circumstances i would indeed consider this. i find that being in chastity gives me more focus in my everyday life to accomplish the goals i set for myself.

Most importantly, i find that chastity puts me in a much more “pliable” state of mind allowing me, under the guidance of my Mistress, to explore and experience my submissive, feminine side in ways i never thought would be possible for me.

Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?

It was more of a gradual realization, after many conversations with my current Mistress, i felt a real connection to Her, and i decided i wanted to do everything i could to give Her more control over me.

What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?

89 days is my current record. As of this writing it has been 78 days and it will be 120 days before my Mistress even considers my next orgasm.

When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?

Yes i do. Altough i do have the opportunity to “cheat” and give myself orgasms, i do not. One time, when i had my device off i was fondling myself and before i knew it i was past the point of no return. Even though it was a ruined orgasm in that i stopped touching myself as soon as i started cumming i felt terrible because i had let both myself and my Mistress down. i decided to confess to my Mistress and take the punishment i knew would surely come, which ended up being another 6 weeks in chastity.

i take it as a personal challenge, just like any challenge i may face in my everyday life to please my Mistress and follow Her directions and i get extreme satisfaction out of it.

When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?

Not applicable

What did it feel like the first time be be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?

The first time i put my device on i was on cam with my Mistress, when i snapped the padlock shut it felt incredible- i was holding my cock and balls but not feeling them- it felt confining- like someone was holding my cock and balls in their hand, a feeling i have come to enjoy.

How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?

It feels frustrating at times, especially in the mornings when i wake up hard which used to be a prime time for masturbating for me. i try not to think about it too much but that doesn’t always work, then i remember that my chastity brings pleasure to my Mistress and it becomes easier to endure.

This is the second part of my chastity interview with Smoothrage from California

When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?

No way! Without a device I can only last about three or four days, and that’s if I’m really trying. I don’t know if I’m different than other guys but my hands start getting a mind of their own, everything gets very sensitive and my thoughts are uncontrollable. Without a device orgasm denial is just a myth for me. If I’m not trying to hold back then the normal routine would be once or twice a day.

When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?

This question illustrates the inherent irony in chastity play. Masturbating about not being able to masturbate. Anyway, I would say probably about 75% of the time. If not chastity then almost always some form of femdom and/or bondage.

I think abandonment fantasies would probably fill that remaining 25% pretty well. That’s the idea of a girl tying me up (or locking me in a dog cage) and leaving to go about her business or go out with friends. I guess it’s sort of like full-body chastity. As with chastity, this fantasy probably stems from some real-world experiences I’ve had with an ex.

What did it feel like the first time be be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?

Amazing! (BTW, Just the fact that you asked this question indicates your understanding of the chastity experience.) A man goes through a wide range of feelings the first 20 minutes of being locked. I can still vividly recall standing there, holding my penis… and yet not holding it. The normal sensation was completely gone. It was a trip as my mind rapidly alternated between amazement at the physical sensation, and fear as the realization sunk in that I would no longer be able to masturbate at will and I had no idea for how long.

How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?

Not knowing really brings out the submissive feelings in me. As others have said it’s a two-edged sword. On the one hand the idea of being completely in the dark about when I would be granted an orgasm is a huge turn-on. In real-life situations, though, it is often good to have a goal to be working towards, if only to help keep my spirits up. My keyholders have often given vague hints as to when I might get out or a minimum sentence (that tends to get extended over and over). I suppose it’s a compromise to get the best of both approaches.

What is at the heart of chastity play for you? What is the draw?

Amour Courtois…Courtly love. The romantic notion of being fully devoted to woman, of being infatuated with her, of being consumed with desire for her to the point that I would sacrifice much to demonstrate my devotion. I don’t mean devotion in a groveling, humiliating way, but more of a heroic, stoic sort of way.

Is there anything else you would like to add about chastity?

When I first went from reading stories about chastity to actually trying it in real life, I was surprised to find that everyone sees it a little differently. Some think of it as BDSM, some think of it as a practical solution to over-masturbation. Some enjoy the feeling of the device while others like the emotional and relationship implications. In any case, we’re a community and we’re in the minority (at least at the moment). I think it’s important to stick together. As we seek out those who understand the chastity game in the same way we do, we need to remember to respect those who may see it a little differently.

This was a great interview I really enjoyed reading his feelings and seeing it through his eyes. If you would like to do an interview on chastity please mail me at Constance@enchantrixempire.com

Here is another fascinating chastity interview that was recently done for me. I bet all those chastity lovers will absolutely identify with this one….and for those curious I think it is a nice perspective of what chastity is about. I had to break this into two blog posts, so look for the rest tomorrow.
 
Are you locked in a chastity device right now?

Yes, locked up tight in my Spiral. I’m going on just over four weeks.

Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?

Real at the moment. It started out with a bang with my ex who kept me locked when we were in college. Over the last couple of years I’ve had periods of being locked and periods of wishing I were locked, depending on the girl I was dating at the time.

When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?

Both, for sure. In fact that fear or uncertainty is probably responsible for half of the pleasure in chastity play. I remember my very first time. My ex was getting ready to go on a trip and I had convinced her to lock me and take the key with her. (Looking back it wasn’t too smart to attempt a multi-week sentence on my very first try.)

The days and nights leading up to her departure were agonizing. I couldn’t eat or sleep for fear and excitement of what would come. The device didn’t arrive until the day before she was to leave. I waited outside for the mailman so my roommates wouldn’t see (I was still in college then). I remember my whole body shaking and shivering as I tried to figure out how to fit it properly. I wore it that night just to make sure it would work OK before handing over the keys.

The next day I helped my girl pack her car. Up until that point she had thought the whole thing was a bit silly. By the time we were done packing I had lost my nerve and decided not to hand them over. As we said our goodbyes she asked, “Do you have something for me?” She could tell I was a wreck as my hand holding the key shook violently, I mean it was really visibly shaking. She hugged me and rubbed my back and told me it would be fine. Then she slowly drew the keys from my fingers and pocketed them. Her last word was, “Enjoy!” Then she drove away.

Do you currently have a keyholder?

Yes, well sorta. A girl I dated previously has agreed to be my keyholder again, even though we aren’t dating. It’s not ideal and she wants me to eventually find a new keyholder. But there is something about an ex-girlfriend as a keyholder that adds a little extra bite.

How would you describe your ideal keyholder?

I think this is the most important question on the survey. When I talk about chastity with vanilla folks, they almost always imagine an extreme BDSM situation. Women often say things like, “Oh, I could never do that. I’m not that mean.”

For me, and I think for a lot of guys, the appeal of chastity is in simultaneously wanting release/sex and wanting to be denied. I think that’s why a good keyholder is a sexual, sensual caring person while somehow artfully balancing being a strict tease. When you think about it, women seem to straddle that line all the time. I mean, that’s the definition of flirting, right? Drawing a man in with some mild form of seduction, then denying him thereby causing his desire and frustration to build. (Repeat until the desired results are achieved.)

For those like me the screaming, whip-wielding, boot-licking form of femdom has some appeal but little compared to the sensual variety.
PS She has to be confident enough to inspire respect in me. A good sense of humor helps. An overall friendly and positive attitude is very attractive.

How many chastity devices have you purchased?

Let’s see. In the old days I started with a CB-2000 and CB-3000. The 3000 seemed to work better. Later I moved to the CB-6000 which was the best of the CB-X line. I tried a Bon4 and the BirdLocked but they didn’t seem quite secure enough. Last year I upgraded to metal with an older version of The Spiral that is different than the one now sold on UberKinky.

I’ve got a drawer full of parts and accessories like the points of intrigue or the ksd-g2.

Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?

I admit that this is a very hot fantasy. The main drawback here is that you can only live that moment once. You can only enjoy that that ultimate loss of freedom and accompanying sense of finality one time.

Some day I do hope to experience this. It would require the right girl and the right circumstances. Of course, one does not have to know they are in permanent chastity for it to be a reality. If a man knows there is no hope of being let out he may start immediately working to break free. However, if you always give him hope for a release yet continually postpone it, you may be able to keep him locked for much longer. Perhaps I am already on this path and have no idea.

Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?

I’ve always been turned on by bondage. Even as a kid I remember playing tie-up games with friends and getting a funny feeling inside. I discovered chastity play in college and it was a conceptual turn-on. At the time I was competing for the affection of a girl that I had dated on and off and was madly in in love with. She kept breaking it off because she wanted to have a fun, wild college experience. At one point she decided to date another guy. The moment she told me I felt an overwhelming urge to submit to her, to lock myself up and hand over the keys. I’m not sure if it was some sort of deeply-rooted cuckold angst or if it was more of a chance to stay in her life any way possible. In any case she eventually agreed, leading up to the experience I shared above.

What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?

Between orgasms or in continuous chastity? Since I was a teen I think the longest time I’ve gone without orgasm was just over two months, which was due to chastity play. I have had periods of chastity with monthly release that have lasted almost a year.

Stay Tuned the second part of this interview will be posted tomorrow on my blog.

This is the last one I have to post so if you’re interested in doing a Chastity Interview with me please shoot me an e-mail

Are you locked in a chastity device right now?

Yes, you locked me up this morning in my new and first ever metal device.

Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?

Real in that I have been locked up by Mistresses at LDW and by a number of Pro-Dommes I have seen in the past.

When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?

Both, I find it very exciting at first but then the reality of it hits me, this is not just about not getting to cum but the difficulties it brings with day to day life, playing sport, going to the toilet in the pub given you have to sit down and the fact I feel I tend to focus on my kinks too much which is not sensible in terms of work and other social stuff.

Having said all of that I do get off in a big way being locked up, it drives my need to be kinky, a slut / whore and craving humiliation from a dominate woman.

Do you currently have a keyholder?

Yes and no. No in that I don’t have a formal arrangement with anyone but as Ms Constance locked me in today I will try to stay in until she releases me.

I have failed at this many times. I live a long way from the USA so don’t feel comfortable handing over the keys plus I would really like to find a local keyholder to cuckold me.

How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?

Very sexual and dominant, that is strict while caring for her submissive, willing to push limits but to do so while taking the capabilities and needs of the sub into consideration.

She also must be 100% trust worthy

How many chastity devices have you purchased?

I have purchased 4 devices, a CB2000, CB3000, Birdlock and Metal Attica (Aus Only)

The CB2000 was ok but the cock rings were not fun to put on, I did buy rings for a CB3000 to use with the CB2000 and this improved things.

The CB3000 I liked at lots, it controlled me well but when I tried to get hard it gave me enough constriction to excite me. I did snap one of the pins from on the cage but I think that was me trying to masturbate while locked up.

The Birdlock was good from a comfort point of view but I could make myself cum in it so didn’t work that well really.

The Metal Attica is new, only worn it for a week so far and it was more comfortable than I expected. We will see how we go.

Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?

Yes, but it really does not appeal to me, I think I am a two to six week person that needs to cum otherwise I become bored and a bit resentful. I think I need the challenge of pleasing a Mistress to earn an orgasm, this can be in many forms She wishes such as Small Penis humiliation, cuckolding, Slut play etc. But there needs to be release and a break every few weeks.

Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?

I had been seeing Pro-Dommes for a number of years and I found one that started to engage with me over and above the session time, from this trust developed and we started to explore more, I had read about chastity and suggested I get a CB2000, she agreed and when I would confirm a session she would give me a time to lock myself in, she kept the keys so once in there was no going back. The average time prior to the session was 5 days in chastity.

This would make me hornier for our session which in turn meant my limits could be pushed. She was my first Strap On, my first coerced bi (cock sucking another male sub) and the first Mistress to feed me my own cum.

What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?

Six weeks

When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?

No, I masturbate 4 to 5 times a week.

When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?

I would say 50% but it is often as part of another kink, these kinks have evolved over the years as new areas of play have been introduced to me. Since calling LWD Mistress the areas of cuckolding and cream pies have really become the focus of my fantasies. To the point my new year’s resolution is to have a real cream pie.

What did it feel like the first time be be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?

Very exciting but a little painful, I would say to anyone trying it go slowly.

How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?

At times very frustrating in a good way, it makes me horny and very keen to be kinky but the flip side is that I find it can be de-motivating as I find it is not meeting my needs from the play.

I think this is why I am not able to become a collard slave, it is just not in my nature to submit for long periods of time, I need it and love getting off on it but once it is over I need to return to the vanilla world until the mood takes me again. I wish I could do more and I have tried but I now know this it is not for me, I am kink in the bedroom only in a way.

This interview was a great one and we all know how much I love Chastity and orgasm denial!!! I would love to hear from more chastity guys so please mail me constance@enchantrixempire.com Or perhaps I should do cuckold interviews or cum slut interviews????

This is an interview that matty thought would not be very helpful since he is not in chastity, but for me it is not just about men in chastity…it is about how men feel about chastity whether they are in it or not.

Hello Ms. Constance.  Thanks for the opportunity to do this interview.  And I have to agree with DC Mike, your pictures do not do you justice.

Are you locked in a chastity device right now?
  I am not locked in a chastity device at the moment, but I am practicing orgasm denial with Goddess Mandy.  With the constraints of our relationship, my word and promise to Goddess Mandy are my chastity device. 

 Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?
  As of now it is very real.  I have only cum while on the phone with Goddess Mandy since I began practicing orgasm denial nearly 5 months ago.  We have made an agreement that if I meet a woman and were planning on having sex with her that I need to contact her and ask permission, again as if I had a real chastity device on.  We have even talked about purchasing a real chastity device with Goddess Mandy being the only key holder.

When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?
 I honestly have never ever thought about it until I began exploring EE, and it excites me very much.  My whole life I have masturbated when I want as much as I want.  I have had all the control.  The thought of giving that sexual control to someone else is amazing.   It is almost like you are being put on a sexual diet. 

Do you currently have a keyholder? 
Goddess Mandy is my key holder so to speak.  No Ms. Constance I did not drop that on purpose to see if I could see up your skirt.  Can I get some water? It is very hot in here.

 How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?
 My ideal key holder would be someone that knows me, cares for me and that I trust completely.  I would want them to know what my limits are, gently pushing me beyond them.  A great Mistress will push your limits, gradually, not exponentially.  If your limits are pushed beyond your capabilities to adapt, you will fail, and eventually loose interest, and disappoint your Mistress.  As deep as your desire is to please her if she always sets you up to fail with limits way beyond what you are capable of, you will begin each new process with the thought of failure in the back of your mind that you can never please your Mistress.

 How many chastity devices have you purchased?
 None at the moment.  But when I do go to purchase one I will contact the resident specialist Gummy, on what one might be right for me.

Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?
 I would like to think I could do that, but lets be realistic here.  I know that wouldn’t work for me.  If there were never any hope of release what would be my motivation? The thought of being able to orgasm keeps me going, keeps me wanting to please; it is an unbelievable motivational tool.  If I never have hope of release, the battle is over, there is no power exchange, and the excitement of chastity would be over for me,  As well as my will to want to serve my Mistress.   

 Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?
 At this point I am still experimenting with it.  I basically just discovered after joining EE and found it really exciting.  So there was no specific point in my life as of yet when the light bulb came on and I realized this was my kink.  But I definitely feel it can be one of the many.

 What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms? When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?
 The longest time period I have gone between orgasms is 38 days.  I know I am in the minor leagues while Gummy is batting cleanup for the Rangers in the big leagues.  38 days was very difficult for me. Goddess Mandy has promised that if I go 39 days there is a picture she is going to show me, but if I go 50 days, she will not just show me the picture, she will let me keep it.  I am not using a chastity device as of now I am just practicing orgasm denial.  I think for me, if my Mistress wanted me to, I would practice orgasm denial even when I wasn’t locked up.

When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?
 25% maybe, though I no longer masturbate alone, it is always on the phone with Goddess Mandy.  But I do think about chastity at times during the day.  When I connect with Goddess Mandy at times during the week she reminds me about how many days it has been, and she also reminds me that she is not in chastity.  And tells me about the times she has had sex or masturbated.  That is when I really think and fantasize about chastity.  I love the thought of being denied while she it not being denied.  That power exchange is unbelievably exciting to me.

What did it feel like the first time be  locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?
 At this time this question does not apply because I do not currently own a chastity device.

How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?
 That is a very exciting feeling.  Goddess Mandy and I use that now during our phone calls.  I have to beg to be granted orgasm and trust me; she does refuse me at times.  I think the longer I go during orgasm denial the more intense the feeling of not knowing, to a point of almost desperation at times.

Thank you so much Ms. Constance for the interview, can I give you a hug? No your right, a hand shake works also.

If you would like to share your thoughts about chastity and do an interview please contact me at Constance@enchantrixempire.com 

I took a pause in my Chastity interviews for the one year update of my chastity pet….now we shall return to our regularly scheduled interview enjoy!!!

 Are you locked in a chastity device right now?
No.

 Is most of your chastity play real or fantasy?

Real, but different than what I usually see described. I use chastity and edging techniques in combination with kundalini and tantric yoga practices, plus my own esoteric sex magic techniques. I have been able to use these techniques, along with certain herbal and outside sexual stimulations to create a mental state that approaches mind altering euphoria and in which I feel I am in actual communication with other, feminine and divine consciousnesses. Side effects of this practice have been that I behave as a model husband, obedient and attentive, and that I maintain a strong professional edge (when not overcome in devotional, chastity-driven preoccupation.)

When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?

It is thrilling. When a dominant female actually takes over and directs control of my orgasm it always drives me into states of intensely submissive consciousness, in which I am completely enthralled to the woman who has taken control of me, in which I long to please her, to the point that I feel grateful for the opportunity to perform basic household tasks or errand for her and in which truly humble and debasing activities like hand washing panties or cleaning and arranging a shoe closet become sacred rituals. .

Do you currently have a keyholder?

I do not/have not practiced actual locked up chastity. It is generally understood that I am to keep my sexually energy changed and intensely submissive for the sake of household harmony. My wife takes control of my orgasms sometimes, as the mood strikes her.

 How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?

 In the ideal world of my sexual consciousness, if I were to enter into an fully locked up chastity slave situation I would want a Keyholder who fully understood the symbolic intensity of my surrender and who would revel in it. She would have to regard herself as a Goddess, because I know that just from my practices with orgasm denial it turns me into a worshipping, groveling slave.

 How many chastity devices have you purchased?

None.

Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?

Of course in the darkest realms of my sexual consciousness I have imagined this. I can see it making sense for a perverted worshipper of a certain age.

 Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?

I was always intensely submissive sexually, but in my early and late 20′s began to learn about yoga, tantric practices and goddess worship, too. I have been sexually submissive to some degree in all my sexual relationships and orgasm denial and edging techniques have been employed on me by partners for their amusement. But things really began to take off after several years of marriage when my wife realized that by denying my orgasms but wearing really hot clothes she could turn me into a houseboy who thanked her for letting him pick up her dirty clothes and do her laundry.

 What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?

About three weeks.

 When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?

N/A

When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?

It is probably a part of every fantasy that doesn’t just involve some sort of casually rendered humiliation. In any fantasy that develops my enforced chastity is of course an issue. It is a sign of ultimate sexual ownership.

What did it feel like the first time be be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?

N/A

How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?

 Exquisitely erotic. Knowing that you are not allowed to do that enforces and intensifies my submissive desires completely mind blowing ways. You feel that you merely a groveling sexual creature with only the rights granted you by a superior female creature, rather than a human being with dignity.

 I enjoyed this interview very much a little different perspective and I enjoy reading everyones thoughts on it. If you would like to do a chastity interview with me Please mail me Constance@enchantrixempire.com

Instead of my usual chastity interview I wanted to share this with all of the chastity lovers out there.

Many of you have read about my chastity pet and his ongoing orgasm denial with me….Saturday is a big day for him and I, it will mark one full year in chastity! His orgasm denial started before I locked up his cock so it has been since Aug of 2010 when he was last granted an orgasm and he has been loving every minute of it!

A Year of Chastity

In this past year he has been out on several occasions to stroke for me but at the end of every phone sex session he is locked right back up without release. This has been a huge thing for him and I, and I can honestly say that controlling his cock all this time has brought us closer and created an even stronger bond. I think you cannot help but to develop a closeness when long term denial and chastity come into play.

Proud to be his Chastity Mistress

I cannot tell you how very proud I am to be his chastity Mistress and how through all this time even with a few bumps in the road, how great it is to have the knowledge that I truly do own and control his cock. We use plastic locks along with a real key.  It is a great system we have set up and the best part is that I know without a doubt morning noon or night that cock is locked tight in his chastity device and he is NOT touching it ever without permission.

Will he get out?

Now that is the question I have been asked by many about him and if he gets out will he get any sort of relief as in the form of an orgasm? Well I would be a naughty mistress if I told all of you here!  Just know that as much as I love chastity and his orgasm denial I could do this forever!!! I can see all your faces right now -  OMG she is never going to let him cum! The truth of the matter is that the mystery for him is very much a big part of this chastity and orgasm denial and I love keeping him on his toes never knowing what I will do next. In fact he has not touched his dick at all in this year and although several times he thought for sure that I was going to let him stroke, e found out the opposite.  He is to stay chaste for as long as I see fit.

Will he get out to touch?

Will he get to cum?

Stay tuned to find out in my next update about my chastity pet!!

 This is a chastity interview with one of Ms Claire’s boys and I just love how his partner and Ms Claire are going to work together in the future

Are you locked in a chastity device right now?

No – was in for two occasions – once for 3 weeks and then a second period of 6 weeks.  I had started third period last month and that lasted about a week before that stopped.  I am about to go back into some form of chastity, but that will be more short term periods rather than long term. 

 Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?

Has been real up to this point and likely will be as well going forward.

When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?

Both – I had not ever been denied before or had gone more than a few days without orgasm, so unsure of what it would be like, but also excited as this was a new adventure and seemed to have a sensual aspect.

Do you currently have a keyholder?

My partner is assuming this going forward and she will be working in some type of coordination with Mistress Claire, who was in control for the two longer periods I had done chastity previously.. 

 How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?

A combination of stern and playful.  They need to be able to set limits and rules, but also have element of teasing/denial that makes the wearer both ache knowing they cannot have what they crave at the moment and also give them something to look forward to.  I think, too, having someone who understands your limits and respects them, but also knows when and how to push those limits.   For me, without this pushing aspect, I would not have been open to long term chastity experience and would have missed out on a lot.

 How many chastity devices have you purchased?

Just one  – a cb6000

Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?

No.  That may be for some people, but definitely not me.  I enjoy sex far too much to lose that!

 Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?

I had read many things on the Enchantrix Empire site and developed a curiosity on this.  I decided to give it a try with Mistress Claire after exchanging several emails. After the first week of being locked up, in which I thought I’d never make it through, something inside just clicked.  It brought out some submissive tendencies for me and the loss of control was freeing in many ways.  The rest of my world and life is one where I’m in charge and in control, so this type of experience was real eye opener.  It freed me up to explore new things in the D/S and fetish spectrum.  Being locked up was humbling and a physical reminder that I was not in control and that I need to serve mistress, that my own needs were not important.

 What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?

 6 weeks was the longest

 When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?

Not consistently, but at times, yes.  There were times when I was not locked, but kept from orgasm in order to please Mistress.  This is also something that I am going to be experimenting with my partner in the days ahead as part of some discipline training that we are undertaking with the assistance of Mistress Claire. 

When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?

About ½.  It is strange that not being in it does make you wish for that control and in some ways, feel guilty for not being locked up.   

What did it feel like the first time be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?

It was scary no doubt.  The physical sensation I felt of my cock/balls hurting, itching, and trying to sleep at night was really rough those first few days.  I found myself getting aroused at any little thing and then having realty set in as I found out how much it hurt on those occasions.   As I noted above, it reminded me that I was not in charge, that even touching my penis was not a decision that I had control over. 

How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?

It drove me up a wall at first and anticipating that next orgasm was all I could think about, but as I got more comfortable with the chastity device, it was not so bad and seemed more natural that someone else should make that decision.  It also does excite me in a way and hits on submissive and humiliation aspects, knowing that someone else controls when I will be able to cum next.   Lastly, I have found that not knowing the next time increases my desire to please that person as much as possible.  

If you would like to do a chastity interview with me please send me an e-mail constance@enchantrixempire.com

This interview was one fantastic insight to the submissive mind of someone who understands and enjoys a bit of chastity play. I enjoyed his answers very much and if your a member of enchantrixempire our social network site you will have seen many of the blogs that fur sissy has written on a wide variety of submissive and dome experiences and thoughts.

Are you locked in a chastity device right now?
No they don’t interest my current mistress much and we haven’t had much of a d/s dynamic for the past 2 years. We tend to reserve it for pegging.

 Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?
I mainly use them on my own in order to maintain an agitated subspace state.  When we use them it’s to deny pleasure during pegging. Prolonged chastity is mainly fantasy but I do it in real time in short term….Not sure if things would go longer if they fit my junk better hehe
Empress Constance: ever think about a custom fit one?
Empress Constance: mature metal makes them custom fit

We have considered that but when it’s uncertain it’s hard to commit 500+ dollars to something

Empress Constance: they are about 300 dollars or so and I can tell you between the product itself and the customer service it is well worth it if you ever get serious about it

Cool.  I will keep them in mind

When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?
Both excite and frighten.  I get excited from the fear of potentially negative outcomes
Empress Constance: such as?

A potential outcome such as her liking me better or being better behaved when chaste so that she decides I’m better off not being let out.
Another negative outcome would be having minor mistakes punished with prolonging release and then being judged so strictly that it is impossible

Do you currently have a keyholder?
I do not have a keyholeder

How would you describe your ideal Keyholder?
My ideal keyholder would be strict
She would appeal to the subs shame and conscience
Make the sub hold an impossibly high standard for himself so that when she asks him point blank if he deserves a release he cannot answer yea honestly
But she would have to be in tune with his submission enough to gauge if/ when depression sets in so that he can have a release to prevent that.
Empress Constance: ahhh a bit of a mind fucktress too
Yea a mindfucktress

How many chastity devices have you purchased?
 5 devices
Houdini, cb 2000 3000 6000 and a 6000s cage

Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?
Yes.  I scare the shit out of myself when I think about that
Empress Constance: why?
It’s hot but its oxymoronic that it gives me a hard on
Empress Constance: hahahaha well trust me you’re not the only one

If I found the right domme and she demanded it of me I would probably agree to it as long as she promised to milk me regularly.  My plumbing backs up something fierce

Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event?
The first time long term chastity started to appeal to me was when I found an e book by the author giles english His descriptions of the women drew me in.  I read his book and that was the first time I masturbated to a chastity fantasy The idea has always done it for my subspace but I hadn’t really jerked off to it before then

What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?
With orgasm denial 21 days or so of heavy teasing

When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?
Sometimes If I want to keep my subspace and attentiveness yup

When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?
40-60% of the time.  If I’m fantasizing about a cruel domme then always chaste

What did it feel like the first time be  locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?

Desperate awareness
I’m not the type that plays with their junk constantly but when locked I start fidgeting with it constantly. Helpless… Desperation… Agitation… Heightened senses… Torment I love it but hate it

How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?

 I have found there’s ” stages of grief” if that makes any sense
Empress Constance: perfect sense actually
Desperate awareness followed by intense focus to serve perfectly and follow orders Followed by panic and high strung state
Followed by acceptance
Followed by depression/hopelessness
It’s a fun ride
Empress Constance: where did the fun come in at?
Having the privilege of serving a woman who wants cock control
It was there from the start
Empress Constance: ahhhhhhhhh very good answer!
I have found serving to be the most rewarding part of my life

I am really enjoying seeing all the many sides chastity has for each individual person…if you would like to do a chastity interview with me please contact me at Constance@enchantrixempire.com

I am stating a brand new project and it is all about chastity! I will be interviewing volunteers on their views of chastity, look for a new interview every week right here!

This interview was with my very own chastity pet Gummy from Texas

1. Are you locked in a chastity device right now?

YES! I am in a Mature Metal Jail bird custom fit!

2. Is most of your chastity play real, or fantasy?

It used to be fantasy until I found the mistress I could trust and these days it is all real!

3. Do you currently have a key holder?

Yes she is long distance but we have overcome the long distance obstacles, through web cam and daily contact.

4. How would you describe your ideal Key Holder?

She is trustworthy, playful, harsh when I need it, no nonsense, and has a deep trust in me but also has some skepticism so she makes me go through the steps to ensure she is confident in knowing I am 100 % secure and locked up. She has to be attentive and not neglectful….and the biggest quality she has to be female!!!!!

 5. How many chastity devices have you purchased?

More than 5 but less than ten~ I went from one device to the next because I wanted to feel more secure and for it to be better………I liked all of them but something always made me turn against them. For instance one I really enjoyed was a metal one that used my piercing to lock my cock but I was allergic to the metal.

6. Ever consider complete and permanent chastity with no hope of release?

YES!!!! In fact I am currently at day number 511 of no orgasms! Will it go on forever I am not sure that is up to my key holder who I trust has my best interest at heart.

7. Was there a specific point in your life when you suddenly realized that chastity was the way to go and what was that event? 

 I read an article in variations magazine…I didn’t even know what orgasm control or chastity was but when I read that article about a Lady who locked up her boyfriend it touched something in my soul and I just knew it was something I needed to explore more.

 8. What is the longest time period you have ever gone between orgasms?

511 days previous to this it was 170 days and I did that twice

9. When you aren’t locked up, do you practice orgasm denial?

Yes my key holder decides when and if I ever cum

10. When you are alone and masturbating, what percentage of the time would you say you think or fantasize about chastity?

I cannot masturbate and have not been able to freely in almost a year. Previous to being locked up I would edge only and chastity was at least 50% of the time what I was thinking about while stroking.

11. When you considered giving orgasm control over to someone did it excite you or frighten you?

Both, it took me a long time to build up trust and in the beginning there was too much fright but once I found the right key holder my fears were set aside and now I cannot believe I lived without it so long

12. What did it feel like the first time be locked and realize you can no longer touch your penis whenever you wanted to?

This is going to sound odd but it was liberating I had absolutely no control so I was free to let my mind roam and go and not worry about the supposed goal of achieving an orgasm.

13. How does it feel to not know when you will be granted an orgasm?

I love the mystery of not knowing and the security of knowing my key holder is in charge of it all and I never try to sway her in her decision it is totally up to her and I have no clue and I love that!

I have already gotten a ton of interest in these interviews and have several done but I would love to hear from all types of chastity lovers…..If you would like to do a chastity interview with me please contact me at constance@enchantrixempire.com