Yes I am a sex worker and I love what I fucking do. With being in the adult entertainment field there are a few things I would like to clear up about my work and about who I am.
Yes I talk dirty for a living but no I don’t do it everywhere with everyone
Yes I do kinky things on the phone but not to those who do not ask for it
No I don’t walk around in high heels and lingerie all the time (sorry)
I only make fun of those who pay me to do so
I respect my callers and don’t think you are all losers
I am grateful to have an outlet to talk about kink in a safe way
I appreciate all the loyalty and perks that come with what I do
No I will not just fuck anyone
Just because I am in this business does not mean I don’t have morals
I actually care about my clients
I am a normal chick with a wicked side
I have a life outside of my kink life that is very vanilla and I like it
I am a Mistress to those I have established that relationship with
I do not dominate every person I meet nor do I want to
I am nice and understanding I am not a pushover
I do not hate men
I have not been abused and now I do this for a living
I love myself
I have bad days just like everyone on the planet
I expect to be respected as a human being by everyone as I respect others
Okay so there you have it some sex worker myths busted and I speak for myself not everyone. I am tired of meeting people in a very vanilla way and upon finding out what I do for a living they think rules do not apply. They think I am slutty or easy or a bitch because of the title I use. I am a caring warm funny loving woman…I respect others and expect respect and unless we have established a Mistress sub dynamic I am NOT your Mistress and have no intention of trying to “turn you”, Also even if you come to me for distance domination I won’t instantly be your Mistress I take what I do seriously and what you give me in submission is a gift, I am not the right Mistress for everyone and until we have spoken and established trust and understanding I cant nor wont be your Mistress.
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Thank you for posting what those who know you, and those of us who serve, already knew to true….Just don’t try to get me to believe you being a Goddess is a myth!
Mistress Constance!
OMG, I love this post! I see myself , also as busting stereotypes of Mistresses and “sex workers”. You are a wonderful and charming woman, you’ve been nothing but good and supportive to me since I started. That’s the true test of a person. You don’t HAVE to be and do all those things, but you do. Thank YOU for all you have done to help me and I know your adoring fans appreciate you for all you continue to do!
This post is a good reminder not to stereotype anyone based on the work they do. For example, government workers are often stereotyped as being “lazy” or “goldbrickers,” or that people who do manual labor are often stereotyped as being “dumb” or otherwise unintelligent. The important thing is to get to know someone.
Ms Constance, every Mistress should give your post out to perspective pets to set the right tone as well as right boundaries. I thought you absolutely nailed it.
What a fantastic post, Ms. Constance. I love it! Thank you for letting folks know the insides of many of our lives.
You are awesome.