So yes first let me say I am on for calls for a very short time this afternoon so for sure catch me while you can….now onto my thought that I want to know from those of you who are submissive what do you get you of it? I woke up with this in my head so what better place to share such thoughts than here.

I am not submissive so you tell me

We all know I am not submissive so it is hard for me to speak for those who are when it comes to this topic. Yes of course I know what SOME submissive guys get out of being submissive but no one size fits all with this. In fact most D/s things are not one size fits all and how one feels about something is not how alllll feel about it.

The power of pleasing

For most of the submissive men I know say they get pleasure from pleasing. I would say that’s a big motivator for submissive guys. Now that does not mean all of you feel that way but it does seem to be a common thread in my conversations and interactions with submissive guys.

So tell me what you get out of being submissive

I want you to share either here or privately by mailing me what it is you get out of being a submissive guy and serving a woman such as myself.