So more tragic news this morning in our country and our world. I thought now might be a great time to explain why I do or well don’t do certain things. Also how I deal with things according to how I see it.

I wont indulge

This goes for just about anything you can imagine when it comes to our world. I wont indulge politic talk, tragedy talk, Society talk. I don’t really feel I should have to explain this but perhaps some of you need to hear it.

Life sucks sometimes okay point blank! I have my share of very serious life ending issues in my every day personal life that have consumed my days and nights. No my problems are not unique many in the world are dealing with them but in my world they are all consuming and I simply do not wish to add to the sadness I already have happening.

This is my escape

Yes although this is how I earn my living this is very much an escape from the rest of the world including my personal world. I come into my office close the door and focus on fun and laughter and sexy times. I was born to be in this world of kink and fun and I refuse to let other world issues fuck with that.

Yes of course I care

No matter what you might think about how I handle the personal arguments about the world and issues with others on social media…I do care. I also choose to express how I feel about such things through other ways like with friends /family not here in my escape world in my happy place in my kink land.

You are not telling me anything I don’t know

So please don’t try to personally educate me on the world issues and tragedies……I know them I am informed….I simply choose not to indulge in them here. To have someone try what they think is make me have an opinion or a feeling and share it on social media or anywhere is insulting and infuriating…respect my right not to indulge and don’t treat me as if I am an idiot and uninformed.

Is what I am doing healthy

Some may say my refusal to indulge and express my feelings on such things is unhealthy and that me hiding behind laughter and kink is not a healthy way to deal with issues………..well I say to that fuck you who are YOU to tell me how I should handle things. I choose to escape a few hours a day into my kink fun world so that I can function in my messed up tragic life. This is what keeps me going….the fun I have on calls is my happy place….fun people and laughter is what makes my days worth waking up for. So think about that before you act shocked I have no reaction to something….think about what I do in my every day world outside of this kink world and how hard life is before you pass judgment on me and my lack of reaction.

With all that said and my rant over

Let me just say my heart goes out to anyone suffering, anyone hurt, anyone lost. Those who know me the best know where my heart is and just how big of a one I have.