So this interesting topic came up in a conversation the other day with a caller. Being owned and controlled by one Mistress but wanting to talk to others for conversation and even play time. I thought I would share my thoughts about this with all of you.

I am all for it

First of all you should know I am all for you calling other Mistresses even though you belong to me. Now with that said my rules are in place regardless of who you speak to and for what. An example would be if your denied by me but want to edge for another….cool do it but don’t you dare cum. As long as the rules we have established are followed you can call as many as often as you like,

why Mistress rules stay in place

Now you might be wondering if I am going to allow you to call other Phone Sex Mistresses why the rules stay in place. First of all if we are that involved there are rules than they are there for the betterment of our pleasure. Second what’s the point in spending time and effort on your kink with me and establishing things only to have you do whatever on the side. This cheats you and me out of a very rewarding relationship.

How to handle things

When you are owned by one but call many you make it up front when speaking to other Mistresses. Make it clear to them what the rules are and what you would like from them. Letting them know up front helps them to decide where to go and how far to go during a session. If you happen to have a Mistress tell you they may or may not follow your lead Mistresses rules perhaps you should decide not to speak with her. The reason I say this is to keep you on the path you wanted to be….and avoids you feeling disrespectful to any Mistress.

Do you call me but belong to another

Well if you have ever called me and told me you belong to another you know I will respect whatever your Mistress has put in place. If your Mistress has you denied you will remain denied. If your Mistress has you eating your load you will eat that load for me as well. I have mad respect for all Mistresses here on our sites and elsewhere and will never go against them.

You are not that serious about it

If you are someone who is not serious about being owned or controlled or devoted to a Mistress that’s totally cool. If you want to cum for one but be denied by another…totally cool. I have no issues with any of that but if you have established yourself and committed yourself to another you should follow through on that. Or even better don’t bother saying to another Mistress you belong to another and you wont ever put her in a situation like letting you cum when denied and such.

**side note**

No this blog is not about you or anyone again this was a conversation I had with a caller the other day and I thought hmm I want to blog about it. I have no issues with my clients calling others in fact in some cases I encourage it. So relax this is not about you hehehehe

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