Happy Hump Day Everyone! Below you will find this weeks questions and answers…I would like to note due to several of the questions that were up in my queue being so long I had to skip around a bit with the order but I promise that if you sent in a question it will be answered. If you would like to send in your question please use my ask Mistress tab hereon my blog

Dear Mistress:
If you had superpowers would you stay pure and noble or go mad with power?

I would say both actually….I would use my super powers for good and I would also use them to be super wicked hehehe

Dear Mistress:
Have you ever thought about doing the Ask Mistress posts on Kink Korner rather than or as well as your blog?

Yes and on occasion I share some ask Mistress questions on my show….but for the most part I don’t because well my show is super unscripted and organic and downright silly and some of the questions are serious, and up until recently unless you tuned into the live show you were not able to hear my asnwers.

Dear Mistress:
how can I stroke for you on camera? my laptop has a built in camera but I’m not exactly sure how to use it. Is that something you could help me with. Thanks

Oh sure I am happy to help you set up your camera….basically I use yahoo messenger or skype to view cameras and since yahoo messenger is about to change this summer I would go with skype. You should give me a heads up you want to be on skype so I can turn it on and be ready but basically you do a skype call show me your cam and let the stroking begin. I will be happy to help you set it up if you need me too

Dear Mistress:
My wife is planning on giving her lover permission to come to our house and use me when she isn’t around. She is away on business a lot and doesn’t like the thought of him cheating on her so she sees this as an acceptable alternative. Do you have any advice on anything I can do to make sure this plan works so she doesn’t have to worry?

I think my advice is obvious and simple…satisfy him totally and completely so that he has neither desire nor need to find sex elsewhere while she is not around. I also like to say she is worried about him cheating well that’s nonsense she can find another man and honestly she is having her cake and eating it too why shouldn’t he?

Dear Mistress:
My boyfriend is a transvestite but doesn’t know that I know. He went through a period of purging a few weeks ago and dumped all his stuff in the trash. I rescued it all and I’m hiding it until he feels better. How do I tell him that I know about him without humiliating him and without him just throwing it all out again? I don’t care what he identifies with or what he’s into as long as he’s happy and honest with me and himself.

First of the reason he probably purged to begin with was out of guilt and shame and fear of you finding out. I suggest you talk to him seriously it is the only thing you can do. Try sitting down with him and saying I found some things in the trash and before you say or think anything I am okay with it and if dressing like a woman makes you happy I am all for it. Then you showing him you saved the things should pretty much prove to him how okay you truly are with it. Ask him to share it with you so that you better understand why he does it and what he enjoys about it and hopefully the two of you can enjoy it together