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Submissive with a Small Penis

As many of you know, I do a weekly advice blog where I answer and give my thoughts to the questions sent in to me from all of you readers. Wel,l there seem to be a ton of submissive men with small dicks questions and if their small penis might make them more submissive. So here are my thoughts on it

Do you have a small penis

First, let’s determine what is considered small…and we won’t go by my size queen standards. We will go by the average penis size. The average dick is 3.6 inches soft and 5.2 inches hard. Now measure your dick and see how it rates….anything under that 5.2 is below average, but that’s not saying it is small. If you ask me anything under 4 inches would be small….and the more you go under 4 inches, the more tiny you truly are.

Submissive with a small dick

Now, just because you might have a small penis does not mean you are submissive, but in my life time I have only met 2 men who had small dicks that were NOT submissive, and that leads me to believe the majority of men who have a tiny penis probably lean towards the submissive side. I am not saying they are slave or humiliation junkies, but they probably are not acting all macho and Mr. Man like either.

Small dicks and being a submissive goes together

Here is my theory on why guys with small dicks are submissive…..well let’s face it, you can’t put your cock where your mouth is so to speak…meaning you can’t be all studly and cocky with the ladies when you’re packing a less than average dick. In fact, if you did behave that way and a woman got you into bed to find your tiny penis, she would probably be very very disappointed and in fact, even a little annoyed. Not all women are like me and wouldn’t have an issue saying what the hell?!?! Most will just give you a pity fuck and never talk to you again.

Do women share partners penis size

YES we do! In fact, when we fuck a guy with either a large or tiny penis, the first thing we do is tell our friends. Trust me when a friend of mine says, “Well I slept with so and so and he had a tiny dick,” I am all like what the fuck? He is so hot looking! It is false advertisement!!! I feel ripped off for them and say, “Well I know you wont be seeing him anymore!”

Better to be submissive then cocky

So if you are a guy who has a tiny penis, it is better for you to be submissive and a pleaser in all things because, honestly, you won’t satisfy a woman in bed with just your penis. So own it….don’t be a cocky jerk off pretending you have this or that and can satisfy a woman…..tell them I may not be huge, but I sure love to lick pussy. Your chances of being with a woman are much greater by doing that than being a loud mouth, small dicked loser.

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23 comments to Submissive with a Small Penis

  • Cuckie

    Great post! I am one of those tiny guys (and shrinking even more in chastity) who is submissive. It’s true, knowing I can’t ever please a woman with what’s in my pants makes me realize my place is serving submissively in other ways. So i agree …” Embrace our Denied place” should be the tiny dicked motto!

  • To quote a famous Inspector, “A man’s got to know his limitations…”

    Or a gurl….

  • Such great advice Ms. Constance! I love that you encourage our small dick callers to be submissive pleasers, because the bottom line is that this is the only way they will have a truly lasting relationship with a beautiful woman. And I had to laugh about what you wrote regarding cock pretenders who only disappoint in bed — so true, the 411 about their tiny dick travels like wildfire 😉

  • Peter

    Ms Constance, in your opinion what would be considered small in girth? I’m average in lenght but I consider myself small because of my girth (4”).
    I’ve avoid having casual sex with friends or coworkers just because I was afraid they tell my ”secret” to other women.

  • Petey cream puff

    I’m under 5.2 inches and yes I’m submissive. With that being said would you put me in panty/bra set as well as chastity? If so I would be your submissive cream puff. After trying to pretend that I don’t want this to happen I really do as its hot how you and the other hot mistresses do this to us.

  • Petey cream puff

    Ms Rayne also said she would do the same thing as well to me. All the mistresses know the I’m a crossdressing cream puff. They have said further feminization is goin to happen to me. Ms Violet put fairy dust in my bra to give me perky d cup breasts as they filled out my bra. Ms Cindy & Ms Audrey have given me feminine arched eyebrows/French manicure. My body is soft/smooth & petite with small penis :0 🙁 once I’m in chastity I’ll belong to all of you.

  • Jim Banes

    I feel like the thing that irritates girls the most is if you hide it or try to fake it. At some point
    she is going to know – then she might be annoyed with you or she might be “nice” about it but that can be even worse. I think I have developed something of a “chore fetish” (if there is such a thing) that is related to small endowment. I think guys are strongly wired to want to please women – one way or the other. I know this sounds a bit nuts but if you are small/tiny I think it make you look for other avenues. I think some women feel like they are using you but I think other women get that it can feel very good to a small endowed submissive guy to pick up her groceries or shovel her sidewalk. That it can make you happy if a woman gives you errands or chores.

    • Constance

      not only do I think there is such a thing I have had several guys tell me about it and I have instructed them to do so…..and I don’t feel like I am using a guy because I am one of those women you mention who get it and know that you being submissive and such makes you feel useful and great

      • Jim

        It is great to me that there are women who understand this. I did not always (and am still figuring it out). There is a part of me that would like it ‘on the table’ with female friends (yes they would have to be close friends) where she says “You are small down there but I’d like you to go do some errands for me”. Yes you’d like to be the big masculine boyfriend but it feels really good to do chores and it does feel like it is connected to endowment. Not sure how to work this out in life but I do have at least one female friend in neighborhood who uses me but not quite so explicitly.

        • Constance

          well there are other women out there who get it and benefit from it…but unfortunately it is not the kinda thing you can just say and expect a positive response too and hey that’s awesome about your friend maybe you should let her know your willing to do anything

          • jim

            I guess that is the hard or weird part (or one of the weird parts) – you cannot tell a girl this. The only times I have had girls connect to this – they have taken the initiative. I think some girls might think they are being abusive. The times this has happened to me the girls did not care so much about that. I don’t know if they understood I felt a need to comply but they were not concerned about “using” me for chores.

          • jim

            How do you know other women “get this” – outside of LDW? Do women talk about this? Or you have just seen it?

  • I’ve always had self confidence issues and been shy with girls. I was and still am the nice guy that is good friend material. Being short and skinny (I’m just about average with my thing) though good looking I don’t think I ever gave the impression that I was hung which is why I probably only slept with one other women before I got married.

    To me being submissive came natural with me being small and soft. Rather than fight it I just went with it.

  • Mike

    My sense is that if you don’t fake it (act cocky like you might be big) and act more like you are then a woman is less likely to get angry with your smallness. I think it makes women angry if you act like you might be big while knowing that you are not. She is most likely still going to be disappointed and maybe even irritated but you are better off than making her mad. I have come to believe that “little guys” have to work harder for female attention and accept what they get more often. It is hard to be demanding when you know the symbol of your male authority is small. It just does not work for most women. It may sound a little weak but do other things to please her it is the best chance you have.

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