HI everyone and Happy Hump Day! Here are the questions sent in by you the readers with my answers/thoughts/opinions thank you all for sending them in! If you would like to submit your own question to be answered please do so by using my Ask Ms Constance tab right here on my blog.

Dear Mistress:
Sometimes if my wife’s bull is waiting for her to get ready or is still in the mood after satisfying her, he’ll make me bend over and use my rear while he waits or until he’s spent. I really like this and sometimes I can ejaculate just by having him inside me. My wife doesn’t like him doing this because he doesn’t ask her permission most of the time and she doesn’t approve of beta males enjoying sex. Can you give me any advice on how to convince her to give him more leeway with me?

Since it seems to me your wife is the one in charge I can understand her being upset he is having his way with you without being asked. I suggest you ask her to make the rules clear to him as well as express that it is not your pleasure that you enjoy it is being used by a bull HER bull. Spin it into something she will enjoy hearing.

Dear Mistress:
When you meet other LDW Mistresses do you ever try to out-mistress each other? I had a dream involving that a few weeks ago and it was great.

When I have met other Mistresses in person it was casual and fun there was very little if any Mistress type things going on. With that said I respect all the ladies I have met and we are all so damn secure in who we are and what we have to offer there is not “out Mistress” type things happening at all.

Dear Mistress:
Since I was in school there is nothing I have found more humbling and more powerful than when a woman (or girl) tells you she thinks your penis is small or tiny. I have had a few girlfriends make it a point to let me know that. One in particular “used” the issue quite regularly. Anytime she wanted something to go her way or thought I was speaking up too much she would bring i t up. It would definitely “work” and (quickly) get me to be quiet. It also made me realize that she was putting up with a guy she felt was way less than stellar. Though this dynamic occurred with more than one girl – this girl was vigilant about it. It made her very powerful in our relationship. I was always a bit nervous that she would mention this issue to one of her friends without me knowing. Have you heard of girls wielding real life power over a guy in this way in an ongoing relationship? Do you think it is rare? More common?

I think it is more common than you would think…I think many men fall into place when a woman knows his “secret” no matter what it is and I think it is often used to keep him in line and to get just what she wants from him.

This is the hopeful cuckquean. I managed to get my husband to admit that there are women other than myself that he finds arousing and we hit upon a compromise solution. He’s willing to have a threesome with one of my friends and is ok with me standing back and watching for part of it if I’m willing to do some lesbian stuff with my friend while he watches.

Dear Mistress:
We’ve never done something like this before so do you have any advice about threesomes you can impart?

I will give you the same advice I give every couple bringing someone in to their bedroom communicate…ground rules hard NO’s and such should be discussed in detail and length before you bring her into your bedroom. Make sure everyone is comfortable and the person you bring in knows there are rules and limits that will keep your relationship happy and secure while still having kinky fun.

Dear Mistress:
Do you think that in general women know or understand that men with small or tiny penises are more malleable, agreeable, and can be directed more? Do you think some women “use” his smallness to make him do things for her? Have you seen ‘the issue” used as a source of power for a woman? Or yourself?

Oh yes I do for sure in fact I have done it to men…the last thing any guy with a small penis wants is for the world to find out about it…lets face it to most a man with a small penis is “less than” meaning not perceived as a stud or a hot fuck……and it makes them less desirable to women it is just nature. So when I need or want something from him all you have to do is say something about it or allude to the fact It would be a shame if all his golfing buddies found out…the man is like putty in your hands!