Happy Hump Day, everyone! Here is this week’s ask Mistress questions and answers. I know sometimes my answers may not line up with what you all think I should reply, but in the moment of answering them that is how I feel at the time…my thoughts, my opinions and I can only speak for myself, so please don’t take the replies as the end all to be all.
Dear Mistress:
Have any clients ever wanted to do roleplay’s involving ca**ration with you? What do you think of it?
I have had guys reach out to me for a session that involves this, but I am not interested. It is one of those things I simply don’t get and I can fake it. So I declined doing a session or discussing it with them.
Dear Mistress:
Why does my wife let her lovers demean her and treat her roughly but expect me to be submissive and attentive when we make love?
I don’t know. Have you asked her? I have never had the frame of mind where I wasn’t to be demeaned or abused; in fact, I do it to those who beg me for it. Perhaps she sees those lovers and alpha manly men and you as her submissive sweet man?
Dear Mistress:
There is a feeling that I do not understand. It is very real and very deep. Powerful even. It is this feeling that a woman can make me do things. It is a hard thing to describe as a feeling. I don’t think all men have it or get it? It is sort of like a “freeze response” where I feel as though I just have to do what a female tells me. It is more than a desire. It is a need. The first two times I felt this were basically embarrassing or real life female dominant scenarios. One was when a girlfriend I had had a small argument with grasped me by the earlobe and literally led me into her apartment by the earlobe. The other was when a female friend made me put on some lingerie for her amusement (she was a friend not girlfriend). I also have an odd and deep reaction when a female says “for me” – “I want you to do this for me….” Whenever the words “for me” are in the sentence it is like I feel as though I am robotic and have to comply. What is that feeling? I want to understand what it is. I cannot imagine all men have this.
You are correct in thinking that not all men feel this, but what you are feeling as far as I can tell, is submissive. You feel the need to please the woman. Saying do this for me and that. my dear, is truly submissive. Embrace it and enjoy it!
Dear Mistress:
I’ve always been fascinated by beautiful feet. Sometimes I wonder what people might think of me. As a mistress do you have respect for some who is willing to share his fetish or do you judge them and think it might be a little strange that someone like me would find this fascinating. I often wonder how you might feel. Personally I think it’s cool that people have different fetishes and are willing to share and explore. After all, we are human beings like the world perceive as normal people.
I don’t know what others would think of you. I know society as a whole is one big, fucking, judging, disgusting bunch of assholes. I personally feel like you do, no matter what the kink is. I don’t judge or make fun of them. I love when someone thinks outside the box, even if I am not into it or don’t understand it. I happen to love guys who are into sexy feet, so honey, you keep loving those pretty toes and I will keep on digging YOU.
Dear Mistress:
Do you think we’ll ever get to the stage where cuckolding becomes commonplace and accepted in wider society?
No and yes…I think these days it is accepted by so many more than ever before, but I don’t see it be coming like common place in society and I see it as being a hidden secret, probably forever. I also don’t think many of our personal bedroom kinks are things to be shared in every day circumstances like you go to work and your co worker says how was your weekend….it will never be okay to say oh my wife got banged by a well hung stud while I waited to lick the cream pie from her pussy. So keeping our kinks behind closed doors is fine because you have places and people like me and LDW to share that with.
Dear Mistress:
What advice would you give to a couple planning on taking the wife’s bull on their honeymoon with them?
Don’t do it! I say spend that time alone together. A honeymoon is no place for a bull. There is no rush into it. Wait till you get back for him to plow your wife lol.
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