Happy Hump Day Everyone!! Here is my Dear Mistress post where I share the questions you all sent in and my answers/opinions and this week, I am treating you to hearing my answers by voice, so click the player below to hear this post. Of course, if you want to ask me something, please do so by using my ASK Mistress Tab right here on my blog

Dear Mistress:
How do you stop a woman calling you d***y during sex? It’s somewhat unnerving, she says it’s just sexy talk and I’m overthinking it but I would like her to stop.

I say be right up front that it creeps you out and although she finds it sexy, you do not. I am with you. I don’t find it sexy or hot. I find it creepy and I don’t get why women do that with their men for any reason. So, be blunt up front with her and let her know how you feel and if she does it during sex, after that suddenly stop…and make your point again.

Dear Mistress:
For a long time now I have been turned on by the idea of my husband cuckolding me with a younger woman. Whenever I try to bring it up with him he refuses. He says that I only feel that way about the fantasy and if it happened in real life I just be angry and blame him. Do you have any tips on how I can convince him otherwise?

So, you want your husband to sleep with a younger woman in front of you….interesting! I am not sure how you convince him of doing it, except like I would tell a guy…keep dropping hints keep saying how hot the idea is when you’re having sex. Sit with him and explain your desire and maybe come to some sort of an agreement on what would work for both of you to be comfortable with it. Your husband has right to be concerned just as any woman cuckolding her man should be. But with the proper communication ahead of time, you can certainly explore it. Good luck and let me know how it goes!

Dear Mistress:
If you were given one day where you were above the law, what would you do?

Oh Hell, I don’t know, rob a few banks….fuck a few politicians in the ass with my strap on….drive really fast hahahahaha.

Dear Mistress:
Several of my fantasies revolve around me being c**trated by various sexy women. Do you think it means anything?

Gaaaaaaaaa! I am not sure I am qualified to answer this at all. It must mean something like you feel unworthy or something, but again, I don’t want to get too deep into something I know nothing about.

Dear Mistress:
If a sub requests it, do you ever yell, scream, or otherwise raise your voice with a sub, either on the phone or during “in-person” sessions? Of course, it may not always be practical depending on how close your neighbors are, but if you were in a setting where no one could hear, have you or would you do it? Why or why not?

Sure I have raised my voice during sessions, but screaming really is not my thing. First of all, I can’t strain my voice like that and second, screaming sounds so emotional and irrational and, well, out of control. I feel like if a person has to scream about something, they just look not in control. So ya, no screaming for me, but I will raise my voice…..and stay in full control.

Dear Mistress:
What would you say to a former client who wanted to let you know that he’s doing ok and is happy with his wife and new bundle of joy, but didn’t want to say so in an email as his wife has access to his account and was never very fond of you? The client in question has been married almost a year now and your last call with him was simply a half hour goodbye.

First of all, I would say congratulations!! I am so happy for you and all that has happened in the last year. Second, I do miss you very much, and although our last call was short, it is what was needed at the time to keep the peace and for you to move on to your new life with your soon to be new wife. Third Happy Birthday! It was yesterday and I wanted to reach out, but I know your wife would not be happy and the LAST thing I ever want is to come between you and her. Be well and be happy. You are someone very special and you deserve all of this happiness!!

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