HI, everyone and Happy Hump Day! Here is my latest ask Mistress post for you all to enjoy. I really dig doing these every week, so don’t be shy about sending in your questions to me…it is super easy to just click on the Ask Ms Constance tab on my blog and submit.

Dear Mistress:
How do you decide which lover to use when you feel that need?

Depends on my mood really. Sometimes, I go for the easiest one to hook up with and sometimes, I am just in the mood for a certain guy…so I decide by what mood I am in.

Dear Mistress:
Is there a question you were expecting that hasn’t come up yet?

To be honest, when I first started this blog, I was not sure I would even get a lot of questions, so I was not expecting anything, really. It has been a year now since I started it, and I can’t think of anything that I expected people to ask me.

Dear Mistress:
I really think that I may have an unrealistic overvalued perception of women. When I have a cross dressing fantasy I think of them as soft kind beautiful sexy.in the real world they have the same problems we as males have. They to come in all shapes and forms.so I think for me having a fantasy of obedience towards a woman and also making myself feel feminine is great in fantasy but probably not what I would want in real life. Your thoughts.

This makes perfect sense. I have always said that what works in fantasy may not work for reality. Our fantasies are ways for us to escape our everyday worlds, and the fact you want to be obedient and femme for a woman in your fantasy is awesome…..but being so in your everyday life is just not practical or doable…so enjoy your fantasy have fun and leave your real world life at the door or, well, phone in this case hehehehe.

Dear Mistress:
Why is it that one day I so excited about one mistress but then another I have a feeling for a different mistress. Why to the feelings come and go.is that just the reality of life that sexual feelings wane or are not as strong the longer you know someone.

I am not sure why you go from one to the other, but it is natural to like a variety of women and enjoy different ones for different reasons….variety is the spice of life, as they say. However, about you’re not as strong the longer you know someone, I feel the opposite…the longer I get to know someone, the deeper and stronger the connection is no matter what the relationship we share might be. There is safety and comfort and ease in knowing someone well and it can make for some amazing fun times.

Don’t forget to tune into www.cockradio.com tonight at 8 PM for my Valentine’s Day show featuring all the poems and shout outs from the fans of LDW!