At long last I am answering all the questions I have been asking my fellow Mistresses about chastity by doing this chastity interview myself…due to the length of my answers I will be posting only half of it today and the second half tomorrow so be sure to come back to read it all
1. As a Chastity Mistress, what do you enjoy the most about denying a man or locking them into a chastity device?
There is a thrill I get with having full and total control over a man’s cock and his ability to touch or cum or even have sex.. I wish I could put that thrill into words but it is one of those things that is electric when it happens. Sparks fly!
2. What do you expect out of your chastity pets once you have them locked up?
Well I expect them to be honest about how they are feeling and loyal to the process and to understand I am fair yet controlling and to give me the opportunity to have that control and to trust that I know just what I am doing
3. In your opinion, what is the most important thing that a chastity pet gets out of the relationship?
The sense of security being in the control of a knowing and understanding Mistress. I am present and hands on with my chastity slaves and never leave them hanging, chastity is the highest form of control I can have over a man and I take it seriously with an open mind and an understanding point of view
4. What qualities do you look for in a chastity pet?
Someone who is eager and excited to do this with me, someone who will listen and understand it is not all fun and games that there are bad days in chastity but to relax knowing I understand this and can help them through it. The bottom line is someone who is 100% ready to lose the ability to do anything with their cock
5. Do you prefer short lockups or long term?
I love all lock ups from 1 day to 1 year it is all exciting for me…….for me in this situation it is not about what I prefer but more about what the chastity slave can handle and is looking for. Long term denial and chastity is not for everyone you have to have that ache that spark to want to do it and not just do it for the woman or Mistress but because you truly want to feel owned and controlled.
6. Do you plan a lockdown with a definite term in mind or do you prefer to “play it by ear”?
I play it by ear for the most part. We communicate clearly goals and personal situations before the lock up even happens and based on those answers I will decide what term lock up will be for.
7. This is hot and I want to be locked up, but I’ve never tried chastity before. What do I need to do to make it happen?
I would explain to them all about chastity with me. How I am in control and no begging or pleading will work. Either you’re locked up or your not. I would suggest they read all the many things I have written about chastity on my blog……..and then I would discuss their personal situation and what they expect to get out of having their cock locked. You also need to look into a proper fitting chastity device never but the first thing you see. Always check sizes and such and after you have done some chastity I suggest you save and purchase a custom made device, You ll find it well worth the money spent.
8. What happens if I change my mind once you’ve locked me up?
It depends….there is always a measure of ohh fuck what did I just get myself into once that lock is in place, but there is a difference between second guessing and backing out. I am fair and I will never have someone locked who is miserable the whole time.It simply is not fun for me….but basically I give them 2 chances after that I will not allow them to be my chastity pet.
Come back tomorrow for the second and final part of My Chastity Interview so you can find out all about how I handle chastity and long term denial
We all known your talents as a key holder
Adore the multitasking a women of many talents
hehehe yes I am a multi tasker for sure
There is a reason I am with you Constance and it’s all right here in the answers. You are honest, thoughtful, and caring. And forthright about what excites you and what you expect. I love your answers. Although I haven’t done chastity I have done long term denial with you and you are hands on and THERE, and in control in a pleasant and exciting way. If I ever was interested in chastity, it would be definitely and only with you.
aww well thank you bfla I am glad you enjoyed my answers
I am so very excited to have been worthy to become one of your chastity slaves. It is indeed a roller coaster ride! Still, I could not be more thrilled to be owned. I’m getting accustomed to longer lock ups and fewer orgasms. However, the climaxes I am allowed are simply mind blowing (like the last one!!!) Now, with the arrival of my new metal Jailbird chastity cage……I am BEGGING you Mistress for a LONG lock up and denial. f it would please you, I want to feel owned, controlled and denied like I never have before! …Whatever happens, I feel blessed to go on this journey with you!
well cuckie it is wonderful having you as one my my pets/chastity slaves and I know you will make me happy and proud and don’t worry cuckie long lock ups are in your future hehehehehe
What a great interview by a great Chastity Mistress! Reading this took me back to the same feelings I had that made me ask you to lock me up in the first place!
awww thanks jem jem I love chastity and controlling and locking up and owning and ohh my I could be here all day with all the things I love to do hehehehehe
I’m so excited to be in chastity for my Queen! The sparks are flying every time I think of You in Complete Control of Your property. Long term? Short term? I want whatever You want my Queen. I simply love being in chastity for You! Thank You my Queen Constance.
Being locked my you Constance has been such an mindblowing experience. Your obvious zeal and excitement for it really shines through and the day to day care you give really makes all the difference. It’s much more intense when you know your Mistress is really into your denial and actively plotting your demise on a daily basis!