May is Masturbation month and now that we are half way through we should be in full swing with our masturbation habits…or should I say full stroke? I find masturbating as a healthy and much needed release in our ohh so busy hectic lives. Now when it comes to masturbating I have encountered some questions and I thought I would share them with you along with my opinions.
Is Masturbating Healthy
Yes it certainly is! Masturbating is a way to release tension orgasms are a natural pain killer and pleasuring yourself is a great way to release the stress of the day and any minor aches and pains you may have.
Is there such a thing as too much masturbating
YES! This is my way of deciding if it is too much, one if you develop any sort of soreness because you are jerking off too much, two if you skip work or social events outside of the house because you are masturbating, and three if it replaces what is a normal healthy sex life…meaning you jerk off so much you cant get it up to fuck your wife.
Does using a vibrator while masturbating harm me
No and Yes Using a vibrator is a great way to play with yourself but if you use them constantly or too much you can lessen the effectiveness of regular masturbating or sex, for women it can lessen the sensitivity and make reaching an orgasm difficult through other means like oral stimulation….so use those vibrators just not too much!
Is Mutual Masturbation as hot as it sounds
Yes yes and ohh my god YES whether it is in person with a partner or on web cam or even on the phone masturbating with someone is extremely hot! I think for me one of the reasons I find it so hot is because you are taught that masturbation although is okay and normal you should always do it in private when alone. I found out that my upbringing combined with social standards made the act of masturbating in front of a partner like a billion times hotter than masturbating alone, that combined with watching him stroke while watching me play made it nearly impossible not to cum…so yes it is as hot as it sounds!
How often do I Masturbate
Well this is a good question like many people I go through stages, my average would be once a day yes some days I masturbate more and some days not at all but over all about once a day. My masturbating is not because I am not having orgasms with partners it is because I need more orgasms than the average woman at least I think so anyways LOL I mean seriously I can cum with my man but then hours later feel that need to cum again. For me masturbation is my quick fix to a need I have, there is no fussing with foreplay no worrying about a partners needs it is all about me and it is a quick and much needed release.
Questions for you readers
So now I have answered some things that have been asked of me, please keep in mind these are MY opinions only and may or may not line up with your thinking on masturbating. I would love for you all to answer the following questions for me in the comment section of this blog, and by all means share anything you would like about the topic of masturbation.
How often do you masturbate?
Have you enjoyed mutual masturbation in any form?
Have you used toys while masturbating?
Do you have any guilt about your masturbation habits?
When was the last time you masturbated?
Would you like to masturbate for me?
How often do you masturbate? Not as much lately, well over the past year it’s been less and less. So, maybe once a week now, and if I wait longer, it doesn’t seem to bother me as much as it used to.
Have you enjoyed mutual masturbation in any form? I have with a partner and it’s really exciting, because she never lets me cum unless I’m inside of her. She doesn’t have the same rule, lol.
Have you used toys while masturbating? Oh yeah, a rubber pussy (girlfriend) and a bullet vibe that you have drove me nuts with. We only used it a couple of times, so you always leave me craving its buzzing. I like the rubber pussy too, because it’s sort of humiliating to use on webcam and well I like that kinda thing.
Do you have any guilt about your masturbation habits? No guilt, I worry sometimes if I’m losing interest since I do it less than I used to.
When was the last time you masturbated? About a week ago, no cummies..It’s been over a month since I did that, lol.
Would you like to masturbate for me? Duh, Yeah, lol…But, you know I’m good for you, so if you say no leave it alone, I will.
Thank you for taking the time to reply W I loved your answers and here is what I want you to do your first “free” day this week you may slip into your panties I know you have been missing them and you may use the bullet vide to edge but just EDGDE I know how carried away you get with that buzzing….and once you have edged 5 times in that day I will allow you to call me and well from there you MIGHT get cummies but only if it will be YUMMY get it?
Empress Constance,
I masturbate almost every day. I seldom masturbate twice a day, so my average will be once a day. My favorite day to masturbate is sunday. Usually i sit at my computer watching masturbating encouragement clips. Sometimes the clips are sweet encouragement clips, sometimes a bit humiliating. I like them all. But on sunday i stay in bed. I am naked and play with myself. Close my eyes and fantasize about masturbating in front of women. I do that for about one hour. Try to edge often. But i do not cum. I stay excited the whole day and in the evening i watch a movie and allow myself to cum. About once a month i invite a callgirl to my house. I know her for 3 years now. I want her to play with herself. She always uses a dildo. I watch her and play with myself too. She always cums first. When it is time for me to cum, i am on the floor on my back. She stands besides me and encourages me to jerk. Sometimes she gives me a countdown. I like that very much. I asked her to visit your websites, but she does not want to do that. Unfortunately. I do not have any guilt about my masturbation habits. Why should i? I enjoy it. And it does not harm other people. The last time i masturbated? Right now, while i am writing this. And if that does not count, yesterday in the evening. Yes, i would love to masturbate for you. I would love to masturbate for every woman if she wants me to. All she has to do is ask me or tell me to play with myself. And i think i prefer the last option.
Wow Bert great reply thank you for sharing your masturbation habits with all of us!! I especially love how you like to masturbate in front of women I think a web cam session would be hot
Masturbate.. Masturbate.. Masturbate. If I chronically masturbate in front of my chastised slave, Is that a problem? 🙂
hehehehe Ms taylor!
Mistress Taylor,
I do not think it is your problem. It is the problem of your chastised slave. It must be a torment, watching your Mistress masturbate in front of you and not be able to touch yourself. It would drive me crazy.
Dear Mistress Conatance,
I really like your post, because you make such excellent points!
Is there such a thing as too much masturbating? This is one of the reasons, why I am into chastity. There is a time required, when one has to take a “vacation” from masturbating. This helps to maintain the sensitivity of the penis. It also keeps me horny and willing to serve my mistresses.
Is Masturbating Healthy? Definitely! When instructed by my mistresses, I know that there are times, which are set aside for stroking. In this case, Mistress knows best! This means that I follow instructions on how much time I am allowed. If I do not masturbate enough, I am punished. If I exceed any instructed time limit, I am also punished.
Is mutual masturbation as hot as it sounds? YES! YES! Definitely YES! I enjoy masturbating in the presence of my in-person mistresses – or on the phone with the LDW mistresses. As a sexually submissive male, I WANT to please my mistresses, stroke for them, and entertain them.
Do you have any guilt about your masturbation habits? I feel that as long as I am following instructions and orders from my mistresses, there is absolutely NO reason to have any feeling of guilt. Masturbation is enjoyable, especially in the presence of or on the phone with a mistress. How often do I Masturbate? Since this is Masturbation Month, I masturbate, as instructed by my mistresses, each day for 1/2 hour – no less, and no more. I am only allowed to edge, but not ejaculate.
When was the last time you masturbated? Earlier this morning, and it was strictly tease and denial, since I am instructed keep those balls filled with cum. No ejaculation!
Would you like to masturbate for me? I would love to! Having had calls with several of the mistresses at LDW for training sessions, it would be a pleasure to speak with you. I would love to stroke that cock at the same time you are also masturbating. I hope that I can call you for mutual masturbation, guided masturbation, and more teasing and orgasm denial training.
Thank you for a great post!
What an awesome comment filled with tons of information on your masturbating habits! I enjoyed reading how you use your mistress for tease and denial and especially your use of chastity to stop your from masturbating far too much! Thank you for answering my questions and hey I look forward to the chance of a masturbation session with you in the future!
Ms Constance…great post. It’s nice to know that I am not alone when it cums to masturbating and how much I love it 🙂 Of course I already knew this.
How often do you masturbate? On average once per day
Have you enjoyed mutual masturbation in any form? Yes, with real life partners and virtual (phone sex) partners
Have you used toys while masturbating? Yes, most definitely
Do you have any guilt about your masturbation habits? On occassion yes, but for the most part not really
When was the last time you masturbated? About 4 hours ago
Would you like to masturbate for me? Hell yes…mutual would be even better 🙂
Thank you very much for the reply to my questions I love finding about others masturbating habits!!!