May is Masturbation month and now that we are half way through we should be in full swing with our masturbation habits…or should I say full stroke? I find masturbating as a healthy and much needed release in our ohh so busy hectic lives. Now when it comes to masturbating I have encountered some questions and I thought I would share them with you along with my opinions.

Is Masturbating Healthy

Yes it certainly is! Masturbating is a way to release tension orgasms are a natural pain killer and pleasuring yourself is a great way to release the stress of the day and any minor aches and pains you may have.

Is there such a thing as too much masturbating

YES! This is my way of deciding if it is too much, one if you develop any sort of soreness because you are jerking off too much, two if you skip work or social events outside of the house because you are masturbating, and three if it replaces what is a normal healthy sex life…meaning you jerk off so much you cant get it up to fuck your wife.

Does using a vibrator while masturbating harm me

No and Yes Using a vibrator is a great way to play with yourself but if you use them constantly or too much you can lessen the effectiveness of regular masturbating or sex, for women it can lessen the sensitivity and make reaching an orgasm difficult through other means like oral stimulation….so use those vibrators just not too much!

Is Mutual Masturbation as hot as it sounds

Yes yes and ohh my god YES whether it is in person with a partner or on web cam or even on the phone masturbating with someone is extremely hot! I think for me one of the reasons I find it so hot is because you are taught that masturbation although is okay and normal you should always do it in private when alone. I found out that my upbringing combined with social standards made the act of masturbating in front of a partner like a billion times hotter than masturbating alone, that combined with watching him stroke while watching me play made it nearly impossible not to cum…so yes it is as hot as it sounds!

How often do I Masturbate

Well this is a good question like many people I go through stages, my average would be once a day yes some days I masturbate more and some days not at all but over all about once a day. My masturbating is not because I am not having orgasms with partners it is because I need more orgasms than the average woman at least I think so anyways LOL I mean seriously I can cum with my man but then hours later feel that need to cum again. For me masturbation is my quick fix to a need I have, there is no fussing with foreplay no worrying about a partners needs it is all about me and it is a quick and much needed release.

Questions for you readers

So now I have answered some things that have been asked of me, please keep in mind these are MY opinions only and may or may not line up with your thinking on masturbating. I would love for you all to answer the following questions for me in the comment section of this blog, and by all means share anything you would like about the topic of masturbation.

How often do you masturbate?
Have you enjoyed mutual masturbation in any form?
Have you used toys while masturbating?
Do you have any guilt about your masturbation habits?
When was the last time you masturbated?
Would you like to masturbate for me?