I have recently hit a few very big milestones with a couple of my long term clients and of course to help celebrate and mark such momentous occasions I have blogged about them, the blogs got many amazing comments which leads me to this very blog. Long term is very doable even when it is phone sex that is if you find the right woman for you.

Long term means Commitment

For any type of a long term relationship to work vanilla or D/s it takes commitment and not just on the part of the man but it also takes commitment from the woman as well, especially when it comes to phone relationships. It is not easy to be thousands of miles away from the one you’re committed to so to keep that bond strong and real it takes time and effort. Does this type of commitment happen over night or easily hell NO, it takes time and interaction it takes proving yourself to me and vice versa in many ways…….funny for me to say as a Mistress that I have to prove myself to those looking for long term but it is true……how do I prove myself? To put it simply by being hands on from start to finish and everything in between I am a hands on phone Mistress. I look at it like this.. how is someone going to trust me and be able to commit themselves to me if I never reply to mails or I am never around except for the phone session….that is no way to build long term anything and I pride myself in breaking that mold of the typical phone sex girl that is in it for the call and that’s all.

Kinks and Long Term

There are many types of kinks we all enjoy but some lend themselves to becoming a long term relationship such as orgasm denial and chastity…how can I lock someone’s cock up claim it as my own if I never speak or communicate with the person or even worse if I disappear for weeks at a time………..simply put I can NOT. As much as many are committed to giving up their freedom for cock control, I am just as committed to being there every step of the way guiding and helping them for better or worse. With every kink and every relationship there are ups and downs whether it be a cuckold or a sissy slut and there is a sense of comfort and security knowing that when you do have those downs your Mistress will still be there for you, and not just stop speaking to you because it was all too much. I am living proof that having a long term kink relationship is indeed possible and enjoyable.

Is Long Term for you?

Are you looking for a connection someone who truly is there and gets you and your needs….do you want to lean on this person for kink and other life issues? Do you find yourself just wanting to know someone is there and happy to be there no strings attached? Well if you answered yes to these things than perhaps a long term phone mistress is just what you need. If your more of the type who wants to try every flavor several times that’s okay too that’s why there are so many choices out there…..just know that if you ever wanted more or needed more it is possible.