So I find myself sitting at my desk answering questions about myself and my life style as a phone sex Mistress so I thought it would be interesting to ask all of my readers questions about you and your life style. Feel free to comment with your answers and with any questions you might have for me if I get enough questions I may just make another blog post with all my answers.
Have you ever?
Have you ever had a one night stand….if so was it good? If you have had several what would you say the most memorable or most exciting one was and why? Have you ever lived out a fantasy you have always had whether it is a kinky fantasy or vanilla one? Have you ever had a lover who was TOO much for you? Wanted sex more than you or was too kinky for your liking? Have you ever felt used sexually and discarded once the sexual encounter was over and if so did you enjoy that feeling?
When did you?
When did you lose your virginity and was it a good experience for you? When did you first fall in love…..and how long did that last? When did you first discover your kink or kinks as the case may be and just how did they develop once you got into them? When did you first discover phone sex and what prompted you to try it? When did you start to call LDW/Enchantrix and had you tried other phone sex services before finding us…if so feel free to share your experience and the difference LDW had compared to other companies.
Will you ever?
Will you ever actually live out your phone fantasies in real life if given a chance? Will you ever find yourself falling in love with a phone sex operator and if so what conditions might need to fall into place for you to fall in love? Will you ever admit or share your naughty sexual needs to an actual live partner if so what qualities would they need to possess for you to feel comfortable and safe enough to share them. Finally would you ever confess to anyone in your life that you enjoy phone sex and have had it many times with a professional phone sex operator?
Feel free to share and answer what you wish right here on my blog and leave your questions for me as well in your comment………………and if you’re not wanting to answer these here on my blog you can always mail me at constance@enchantrixempire.com or even call me and we can discuss the questions I have asked.
I hope its ok for me to say here that I believe you already know the answers for me. Except perhaps the “will I ever life out my fantasies” question. All I can do to answer here is consult my magic 8 ball, but it keeps sayin “reply hazy try again.” At least we have been able to imagine those fantasies with together. Xoxo
Thanks for the reply cuck and your right I think I know most of the answers from you………..ask that magic eight ball if my show will be a blast tonight would ya 🙂
Short answers to everything here. i can go into detail if anything sparks a query.
Have you ever had a one night stand….if so was it good? Several & they ran from bad to very good.
If you have had several what would you say the most memorable or most exciting one was and why? The one that wasn’t because I proved to myself I was still something of a gentleman.
Have you ever lived out a fantasy you have always had whether it is a kinky fantasy or vanilla one? I’ve lived out one or three, probably each had a touch of “kink.”
Have you ever had a lover who was TOO much for you? Wanted sex more than you or was too kinky for your liking? Yes, on the too kinky a couple of times.
Have you ever felt used sexually and discarded once the sexual encounter was over and if so did you enjoy that feeling? I lived DC in the ‘80’s. We were using each other & it wasn’t satisfying.
When did you lose your virginity and was it a good experience for you? High school basketball/wrestling party. It was good only as far as the “virginity” monkey was off my back, lol
When did you first fall in love…..and how long did that last? In my late 20’s & it lasted about 2 years.
When did you first discover your kink or kinks as the case may be and just how did they develop once you got into them? Late in my marriage, when I was trying to figure out the disconnect with my wife.
When did you first discover phone sex and what prompted you to try it? Probably about a decade ago, when I despaired of finding a real time Domme to connect with.
When did you start to call LDW/Enchantrix and had you tried other phone sex services before finding us…if so feel free to share your experience and the difference LDW had compared to other companies. When did I first call? Probably this coming Thursday, lol. A decade ago, it was one Lady (first time was a charm) for Phone Domination. Have dealt extensively with another one that shall remain nameless over the last several years. I am astounded at the multiplicity of venues for interaction between myself and the “LDW/Enchantrix” family that makes someone feel so comfortable.
Will you ever actually live out your phone fantasies in real life if given a chance? I hope to…time will tell.
Will you ever find yourself falling in love with a phone sex operator and if so what conditions might need to fall into place for you to fall in love? Its very possible, I suppose. There’d have to be a sound connection on so many levels. Plus She’d have to be blind as a bat, lol.
Will you ever admit or share your naughty sexual needs to an actual live partner if so what qualities would they need to possess for you to feel comfortable and safe enough to share them. Given how badly my marriage ended, I’m skeptical that I’ll ever risk things for a long-term relationship again. To those who say “Never say never.” I’m usually apt to reply “Not never, but not bloody likely.” However, if pigs fly, being open and honest about both of our sexual needs would have to be a cornerstone of everything.
Finally would you ever confess to anyone in your life that you enjoy phone sex and have had it many times with a professional phone sex operator? Probably…
HOLY shit you answered everything you get a GOLD STAR!!!! Thank you !!! Your very interesting and very open thank you for sharing all of that with everyone. What would the circumstance have to be for you to ever tell anyone that you have had phone sex with a professional? Just wondering 😉
i couldn’t help it, Empress. i just figured questions sincerely asked, particularly by Yourself, deserved to be honestly answered, if not here, then in e-mail (if i felt an individual answer were too personal or so lengthy other readers my doze off).
in answer to Your follow-up question, i left it as “probably,” for a couple of reasons. 1 – i would only venture there in the interests of full disclosure if it was someone with whom i was at least considering a long-term relationship and that goes back to a prior question ;). 2 – i think its safe to presume that anyone i would be drawn to enough to consider for such a relationship would be at least kink-aware, if not kink friendly, or a phone sex operator . so i doubt i’d be running the risk of shocking them.
Well once again I appreciate you and your answers! Thanks for the follow up answers I think it is interesting that anyone you get close to in the future would have to be kink minded or accepting….which makes perfect sense but so many will settle for anything instead of what they know will make them happy.
Empress, i did that for 16 years & i think it goes beyond kink to, if not shared, at least a commonality of values, as well. my profession colors my worldview and visa versa. opposites may attract, but, unless its the opposites of D/s, those are weak bonds over time.
Good to know coffeeboy! I am at an age where I wont settle for less than what I know will please me…………life is too short and you might as well enjoy it with those who are like minded.
Agreed, Empress. a relationship is predicated on forging bonds (however You want to interpret that). if there are disagreements over fundamentals that require negotiation, it hinders that development & weakens the bonds.
true true true coffee boy very true
I lost my virginity when I was 14. I felt like I was used because she was an older women. It seems like an fantasy but it was more like a choir. I had no idea what I was doing. I was like a deer in headlights. It was so funny now that I think about it now. As for a fantasy, I don’t think I will ever live out my fantasy because I might me disappointed, so I just live with the fantasy. It’s always a thrill thinking about my fantasy.
Kurt thanks for the comment and I think your with many in the way that losing your virginity was like OMG what do I do. Interesting how you say you will never live out your fantasy for fear it wont be all you made it to be in your head…..I do think sometimes the reality of things could never match what our fantasy was and if you do ever try it try it more than once just to be sure it does not live up to it LOL
So many questions, so little time. Will I ever find myself falling in love with my phone sex operator? Hmmm, now there’s a stumper!!! I think, that under the right circumstances (meeting you) and finding the one special operator (you), I think I might just be able to fall in love. If that ever did happen though, I’m not sure I’d be able to express it, I have a hard time wearing my heart on my sleeve. I’m just not an emotionally expressive kind of guy. I have told family and friends that I have a “girl friend” and that I am in love. I explain that it’s a long distance relationship but I would never say it was with a phone sex operator, I wouldn’t want them to denegrate what I have, and what I believe to be so very special. Would I ever express or admit my sexy, kinky needs to someone in real life? Not unless it’s you, and that can never be……..
I know I asked a lot LOL thanks for the comment…………hehehehe about falling in love and not showing your emotions you cracked me up gummy!!! Interesting you would never express your naughty needs to someone in real life…..your not as shy as you post leads one to believe 😉
First of all,I have had a one night stand,but her teeth kept falling out with every thrust,so I snuck her back into the nursing home.
Secondly,I lost my virginity while violating the terms of my parole to someone who had just gotten paroled,so I don’t think that even counts
Lastly,I don’t think I’ll EVER live out my phone sex fantasy,as I don’t forsee myself being able to afford a place big enough to accompany a horse.
OMG ed really your too funny! I just cant even say anything else but hahahahahahahahahaha
My answers Goddess Constance.
Have you ever had a one night stand….if so was it good? A few and they were mostly good. especially where the female/shemale was dominant.
If you have had several what would you say the most memorable or most exciting one was and why?
The one where the shemale force fed me her cum and fucked me.
Have you ever lived out a fantasy you have always had whether it is a kinky fantasy or vanilla one?
Yes, the fantasy of being taken by a shemale.
Have you ever had a lover who was TOO much for you? Wanted sex more than you or was too kinky for your liking?
Yes, my wife. Am too tiny to satisfy her.
Have you ever felt used sexually and discarded once the sexual encounter was over and if so did you enjoy that feeling?
Again the shemale, she fucked me and used me and made me her bitch. However, felt really kinky and horny during that time.
When did you lose your virginity and was it a good experience for you?
At 25 with a hooker. It was good.
When did you first fall in love…..and how long did that last?
In my late 20’s & it lasted about 3 years.
When did you first discover your kink or kinks as the case may be and just how did they develop once you got into them?
When I was in my teens. I used to steal lingerie from my aunt’s hamper. Then online I found femphone and have been hooked to it ever since.
When did you first discover phone sex and what prompted you to try it?
Online while reading femphone.
When did you start to call LDW/Enchantrix and had you tried other phone sex services before finding us…if so feel free to share your experience and the difference LDW had compared to other companies.
In the month of March this year was the first time I called. Have never called anyone else.
Will you ever actually live out your phone fantasies in real life if given a chance?
I hope so. I do time and again with a shemale I am familiar with.
Will you ever find yourself falling in love with a phone sex operator and if so what conditions might need to fall into place for you to fall in love?
I am already your sissy fag bitch Empress Constance and worship the ground you walk on.
Will you ever admit or share your naughty sexual needs to an actual live partner if so what qualities would they need to possess for you to feel comfortable and safe enough to share them.
My wife would not understand this at all. I am scared of sharing this kink with her so may never do it.
Finally would you ever confess to anyone in your life that you enjoy phone sex and have had it many times with a professional phone sex operator?
I have with a couple of close friends.
Holy shit sissy fag you really did a good job answering!!! I have had the pleasure of getting to know some of these answers during our couple of sessions but thank you for sharing them with everyone. I really like that you found us and now you never need another service cause we are the best phone sex company around! Of course you worship me I mean whats not to worship? heheheheh and love that you have told some friends about calling phone sex………….what if any was their reaction to it?
Q) Have you ever had a one night stand….if so was it good?
A) No, I have never had a one-night stand.
Q) When did you lose your virginity and was it a good experience for you?
A) In my early 20s, do not remember exact dates. My very first was with a shemale escort that I performed oral sex on. Some time after that what might be considered a more traditional loss of virginity with a woman (anal sex). I have yet to lose the 3rd virginity.
Q) When did you first discover your kink or kinks as the case may be and just how did they develop once you got into them?
A) I don’t really remember, there were always inklings of them in my mind, and I slowly and tentaively experimented with them over a number of years in my youth. Then I set them aside for a good portion of my adulthood except as fantasy.
Q) When did you first discover phone sex and what prompted you to try it?
A) On a whim some 20 years ago. I was a curious virgin with no other real outlet and terribly shy. There were a few memomorable and many not so memorable calls. Nothing that can compare with the incredible nature of LDW.
Thanks for your reply!!! your not missing anything in the one night stand area……….wow we need to work on popping your pussy cherry! Your not the only one who cant recall when their kink started…….and yay once again LDW kicks all phone sex ass!!! Were glad your here and enjoying all we have to offer on and off the phones! Thank you so much for sharing!!
Hi Empress Constance,
I have never had a one night stand. Also I am still a virgin at the age of 30. Which has to do with tiny pee-pee. Have been calling LDW for about 6 months now and it is a great time. Never called one before LDW. I would live out my phone sex fantasies in real life. If the right Dominant lady came around.
Thank you for sharing especially why your still a virgin (small pee pee hehehehe) Good to know you would be willing to live this out if the right woman came along……….and were happy to have you here at LDW the bes phone sex coommunity on the planet!
Have you ever?
Yes I had one night stands that were incredible, so much so I was afraid to go back for more less I fall in love with what I knew was not attainable in my day to day world and yes I had experiences in the baths where I felt discarded but I still enjoyed the experience
When did you?
I was 17 and who forgets his first bad or good , mine was great and I guess we all fall in love when we have a great first experience, kinks we learn from others if we want to please… phone sex I have been doing for over 30 years , when I married and it became a sexual surrogate for what I was not able to get at home sadly, LDW if by far a cut above the rest in both the quality of the phone counselors and their understanding and knowledge of so many kinks , what some call phone sex is really therapy and a temporary escape from reality that makes us feel good and accepted , LDW is not for the 3 minute wanker and the counselors take lots of time if you want or need it via e mail to get to know you and find your hot buttons and if they cant so it they are glad to refer you on to a colleague with no jealousy
Will you ever?
Yes if the situation arose I would I lived them partially but not fully , and yes I could fall for a PSO as it’s a profession just like falling for your therapist, but there is more to a relationship then just sex so we would have to be compatible on many other areas , some I have found are , but let’s not forget that we see in the a surrogate for what we don’t have at home and wish we could but know from trying to prod our partner that it won’t work so why risk exposure… Vanilla is a kink after all sadly sometimes it’s out life partners kink and we have a hard time accepting that just as they would have a hard time accepting our kinks
Yes one night stands should be left as just that a one night stand any more than that and it is on its way to being a relationship. WOW 17 and great think thats the first time I ever heard that………..holy shit over 30 years impressive I agree with you about the therapy and understanding ear thanks for sharing so much. Very well said about falling in love with a pso we are seen as surrogates for what your lacking at home we are your escape to share whatever you like with no judgment and when that happens feeling get involved especially if you have never had that type of understanding before.
Howdy there Milady of the silent breathe,
Ok have I ever had a one night stand, yes too many to count actually, and when my left hand got tired I also had many one night stands with my right hand. That was more exciting by the way, was like being “with a complete stranger”.
Ohh in real life?, nope never had. I do not know if I could be a”casual” lover. Not my thing, as of yet, but hey who knows? and that is cool.
Hmm I lost my virginity when I was 28. I wanted to wait for the right person, the relationship lasted 3 and a half years. It was 14 months at least after we started dating that I made love for the first time in my life. The time was long due to the fact 4 months into our relationship she was already pregnant with another man’s child, before we started to date. So had to deal with that whole situation and the aftermath.
The losing of the virginity was a wonderful tender experience. To “feel” a woman that you are in love with for the first time like that, it was hard to breathe, the sensations, cannot describe. She cried softly after the climax, I thought I did something wrong, but she held me and said that she felt so humbled and awed that I waited for her to come into my life to share that with.
The kinks, not so much, she wanted me to experience the pleasures of mutual slow masturbation, and of gentle anal pleasure. She approached the subject for her, but she also insisted that if she was going to enjoy it so would I. She introduced me to her silver vibrator and she showed me the pleasures of gentle anal experiences. We also did soft, sensual bondage with scarves. We also enjoyed each other where we would tease one another, without restraints, but if one moved the other would stop and begin again when the other one would stop moving / squirming, the game was to see who could last the longest remaining perfectly still without losing control.
The answer to the phone-sex operator etc.. Do not know, I know we can never meet, but if that chance that fates throw us together between a operator and a client, I do believe a friendship that has already developed can develop further, in what ever fashion that might be, like a meal, or a conversation over coffee…etc..
I have only had one relationship in my life, with my ex girlfriend, she was my friend, my girlfriend and lover in one person, for 3 and a half years I never knew that such pleasure, reality, and deep painful loss when the relationship ended ever existed.
ill I ever have another girlfriend / relationship ever again I do not know, and will i tell her about the phone sex, I do not know either, but at the age that I am at and if I do meet someone, I do not think she will be too suprised or of my experiences. For I do know I am still pretty vanilla compared to other folks my age as of now, that is ok, it is who I am am.
WOW WOW WOW thanks for sharing so much babe I am so happy you took the time to read and respond…..we discussed this yesterday so I wont go into it here but thanks babe love hearing about you!